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I hope he's your ex-boyfriend now. If he decides to ditch you with the baby then try to get him to pay child support.
And if none of that works just send guys that are bigger than him out to "find" him.
Or kick him in the nuts a few times so he can't do this to another women.
I hope "another women" is a typo.
Looks like my dad took off to Washington ... :/
Unless they were married, I don't think that he can be forced to pay child support
That really sucks, sorry OP
Sounds like the type of comment you can say in any FML.
#42 unless it's those kinds of FMLs where OP really deserves it.
He was obviously not worthy to be your child's father anyway. You'll find a better man to help raise him/her.
@38 ...All the dudes actually worth dating, anyway.
They could've been in a long term serious relationship and he's always seemed like a good guy. The whole thing of the "bad boys" isn't as simple as it may seem. And she may not be a young girl! Could easily be a woman in her 30s. Is it just me who finds phoning with that news a bit odd? Good or bad news, it seems face to face to me.
yeah, because there is an army of guys wanting to raise some one's elses kid...
It's not about wanting to raise someone else's kid it's about being willing to raise anothers kid as your own
#80 "irresponsible young women who spread their legs for the bad boys"? That's jumping to conclusions isn't it? Define "bad boy", everyone has a different opinion of what a "bad boy" or "good boy" is. As for the adoption part of your comment, single mothers can raise children just as well as two parents can, if not better, what makes a single parent household such a curse that the unborn child needs to be put up for adoption? I think OP is more worried that the father has skipped town than of she can raise the child on her own, and if she is worried about that, than sure, adoption is an option, but jumping the gun and say "put it up for adoption, you can't handle a child" is just...callous and rude. That's how I read your comment anyways.
They ARE out there. I have a very supportive, loving and sweet husband now who adores my son I had before I met him and calls him his own, and I'm not even an attractive person, just a young chubby mom and he fell in love with me anyway. So depending on OP's looks/personality there will always be people willing to like and love someone, kids and all.
You're in luck if you're in Washington, D.C. Complain to President Obama! ..on a serious note, he's a dick. File for child support, hope you have his details.
Washington the state, not DC
Obama won't do anything about that. He's busy with far more important matters like taking lavish vacations with taxpayer money and getting America into wars we have no reason to be in.
Like playing golf.
Wait we still aren't out of Iraq? Didn't he get elected 6 years ago on the premise of getting us out of there 4 years ago? CHANGE!!!! Sorry I couldn't help it.
I'm pretty sure a 4-star general died not more than four years ago.
We aren't out of anywhere, they say we're out of. America is probably in just about every country in the world, either "helping", or "peacekeeping". Except Russia. Because Russia and America are being dicks to each other. Mainly Russia trying to get Ukraine back. Oh but OP on the bright side you don't want that kind of guy raising your kid.
He doesn't seem to feel that way. Such an irresponsible President.
Well I guess he is to busy playing golf...
Sometimes, it really saddens me to be a guy.
It shouldn't, her ex-boyfriend is no man. He's a douche and a coward.
After reading the 16-day period FML, I've never been more happy being a guy
Aww, I'm sorry OP I wish you the best of luck with your pregnancy. And hope he comes to his senses that it's his child no matter what.
That's ok, you're a strong independent (insert race here) woman who don't need no man! *Insert finger snaps*
I hope that's now ex-boyfriend and he's definitely a dick.
Raise your baby to be the opposite of your hopefully ex-boyfriend
You can't force someone be there for you but you can file for child support, it's definitely not the same but it's something. Good luck though!
Child support won't help if the "boyfriend" flees the country - hypothetically speaking. If the boyfriend already bailed out, what would stop him from fleeing the country? I would assume the boyfriend already took all of these scenarios into consideration before leaving his "baby mama".
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I hope he's your ex-boyfriend now. If he decides to ditch you with the baby then try to get him to pay child support.
That's ok, you're a strong independent (insert race here) woman who don't need no man! *Insert finger snaps*