By Sooz - 03/10/2013 01:18 - Canada - Abbotsford
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It seems you care about him enough to have endured that long. But he needs to know that if he doesn't try to find a solution, you will end up looking for satisfaction elsewhere.
Relationships aren't just about sex, but in the majority of adult relationships, it is an important factor. Finding someone sexually attractive and wanting to share that intimacy with them is what makes a relationship different to just being good friends. Dissatisfaction will eventually lead to resentment and that will cause them problems elsewhere in their relationship. They need to talk about this.
I've been married for 2 years and been together 3. sadly he gets of really easily thank god not 5 mins. I wouldn't leave him just cuz sometimes he gets before me, but then at least he is nice enough to get me off or I can use a toy. no. relationships aren't all about sex but damn is an orgasm good during sex!
sex is a two way street. what ever happened to equality of the sexes. Where does it say it's the man's job to be good at sex. More women need to be proactive in their pleasure. sharing with your partner what pleases you will make things better for the both persons. Kudos to OP for sticking in there. Sex is not everything. But since she seems to enjoy it she should make finding ways for him to get better something they can do together.
You need to experiment! Play with some of the eucalyptus flavor numbing gels and more foreplay! Fyl indeed but if you both work on it you can have more fun:-)