80, If she was smoking before he met her then he has no right to judge her for it now. He had the choice to move on and find someone who met his needs. Keep in mind, I am 100% against smoking. While I think it's good of him to be trying to fix her habit, its another thing entirely to judge her as selfish for wanting to continue. It's not like she just pulled out a pack despite knowing he was against smoking and we can assume they've been married less time than she has smoked. You need to calm the hell down.

No shit Sherlock...

A-*******-men!

You can both **** off and smoke your cancer sticks. Don't get all self-righteous by calling anti-smokers self-righteous. The fact is that smoking is the leading preventable cause of death in the world. There is not one single health benefit to smoking, and tobacco should have been banned years ago. Don't think that smoking just affects you, either. No, I'm not talking about second hand smoke. I'm talking about the BILLIONS of dollars/euros/yuen/pounds that are spent annually to treat all the various smoking-related diseases because you were STUPID enough to start smoking and too STUPID to figure out how to quit.

Agreed, it's very bold of so many people here to tell others how to live there lives.

Both of my parent used to smoke and they both stopped. Yeah, it isn't easy for the first couple of months, but it is possible. If you really knew how bad smoking is for yourself and others around you, you wouldn't do it.

I was about to post the exact same thing. THANK YOU!!!!!

Yes! It's our own choice! Everyone wants to bitch about smoking, but let's ignore alcohol and it's harmful affects, or how about fast food?

I have no problem with smokers, personally. It's not my business if you want to kill yourself. However, I simply cannot stand people who smoke around other people who are not smokers themselves. That is extremely inconsiderate and absolutely disgusting and I think the amount of people who do that is the reason the rest of you get such a hard time.

isis_morrigan - Of course it's your own choice how to kill yourself. But don't try to change the subject to alcohol. We aren't talking about alcohol, which DOES actually have health benefits if used in moderation. Tobacco, on the other hand, has none. Zero. Zilch. Nada. NOTHING.

Doc-I'm not trying to change the subject, I am simply trying to point out that almost everyone has an unhealthy vice, but none are looked down upon as much as smoking. I don't smoke around others, it's my habit. I make it a point to go well away from others in a public area. And no, there are no health benefits, but it's something I will continue to do until I choose not to. And very few people who drink alcohol are using it in moderation and for health benefits. And most if they claim it's for health benefits, it's kind of like saying "well, I don't use cocaine, I just like the smell of it"

See Doc, now what was I saying about us agreeing on things every now and then...;) 89, Did anyone say it wasn't easy? Are you trying to suggest that because something is hard we shouldn't expect people to do it? Well, finding a job is hard you know, so maybe we shouldn't judge people who decide they just want to live off welfare for the rest of their lives. You know what else is hard? School. Yeah, lets give drop outs more credit, because math can be a bitch. Don't worry about how he drew on her property, it won't be around long enough for that to matter. If you were burning all your stuff I would have to wonder why it is you care that people are drawing on it. It's not like she cares about inhaling toxic material...so why the hate?