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I immediately imagined it being a dude, and the pictures being some kind of fucked up inside joke taken to the extreme, and laughed. Then I realized they were probably from a women, and got sad.

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Ah, yes, because condoning violence is so wonderful and so mature, especially considering that there is absolutely NO indication that he sent nudes to his co-worker, or that he asked for nudes from his co-worker. Question: would you condone this if the OP was male, and his wife was receiving nudes from one of her co-workers? Would you recommend he punch her in the face?

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Oh my lord 66, lighten up. I wonder what people like him/her do in their social life. Friend: Why did the chicken cross the road? 66: Does this mean you support chicken abuse? We have no proof that a chicken crossed the road. If it wasn't a chicken, would you still ask why it supposedly crossed the road?

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Keep those as a proof OP!Those will help you divorce his cheating ass! Apparently, loyalty in a relationship is too much to ask for!

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Doc, OP doesn't know for sure, but it's a pretty safe bet. If he has consented to receiving those nude pictures, then he is in an adulterous relationship, whether or not he's actually had any sort of sexual relations with this woman.

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107, *sigh* No, not necessarily. That was the point of me using the word "consent." If he hasn't consented to being sent these nude photos, then he's not cheating he's being sexually harassed. If he HAS consented to receiving these nude photos, then that act alone is adultery. Seriously, it galls me what I have to spell out for people on here sometimes.

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But it still had to be in your mothers head.Though some people can work it out,others are not able to get the image out of their minds.It is not unreasonable to divorce or suggest divorce.You are supposed to build a relationship on trust and when that gets violated in such a manner sometimes you can't get it back.If it were me and he was actually involved with the coworker I would divorce him.

I immediately imagined it being a dude, and the pictures being some kind of fucked up inside joke taken to the extreme, and laughed. Then I realized they were probably from a women, and got sad.

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ok. I'm going to include an unlikely yet possible explanation: this coworker is a psycho who is obsessed with OP's husband and sent the pics because she is desperate for his attention and maybe wants to ruin his marriage because she is jealous. this scenario is highly unlikely but minimally possible fyl OP if your husband is a cheating scumbag

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Actually, there is a surprising number of movies with that exact plot. They range from the girlfriend's roommate to the husband's secretary. I've personally seen three movies of this type.

Wow at least you know you can get rid of the loser and find a real man remember to smile and that your beautiful like all women and you deserve the best

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If you go to #6's profile, it's all girls who recently checked him out, probably because of that comment! ;) Well played sir!

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I had a stalker like this for a few months until she found a new guy to harass. I however told my girl about it as soon as it started so she was pissed at the stalker and not me. That just isn't something you try to keep hidden it'll never end well.

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Ever think about the fact that this could have been the first time it happened? I don't think so. It's jot like I am defending what he is doing. It's wrong beyond any reasonable doubt. Clearly there is a bit of a bias view on the matter here. Everyone should have a chance to explain their actions. No use rushing into things and regretting it later. And yes I agree he is an DICK HEAD if he is cheating ok matter the reason

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I agree here. It's also possible, although I doubt it, that coincidentally she was accidentally sending them to the wrong person, or someone else got her phone and was vindictive. I just think she as his wife should know him well enough to know if its a lie or if possibly it's not what it seems... On the other hand if it is... He better wear armor cause he won't be a guy for long.

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I didn't realize they are so easy to exchange, is there a husband store near you? She may need to check the return policy first on this one, he could be broken.

Prepare yourself for as many outcomes as you can think of then calmly talk to him. If it is the worst news, keep your dignity, and remember you enter the conversation well prepared so you (may of) sorted yourself out financially a mentally first. Good luck.

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