By wellthatsucks - 05/07/2015 19:18 - United States
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It's a new phone, so it begs the question "how did OLD photos of his ex get on his NEW phone?" The answer would be that they weren't old pictures, but rather pictures he took after he got the phone. There are other explanations of course. He could have sent the pictures from his old phone to his new phone, but that option would not be feasible if he traded in his old phone to get the new one. There are several variables left out of this that prevent us from getting a definitive, or at least close to definitive, answer.
6 months is long enough for him to get those kinds of pics off his phone.
That's when you pull out your phone and show him his name in your contacts. Right before deleting it in his face and leaving him single.
Are you actually serious? That is cheating. He knows the girl, he had sex with that girl, so by prioritising a picture of her naked body to jack off over as soon as he got that phone he's making his attractions very clear. Either he's got that picture recently or he prefers to think about screwing his ex over OP, that is cruel and that is cheating. God help your partner/future partner.
It's not cheating. For a start other people have already explained how an old pic could have synced to his phone. But even if he put that pic there deliberately he might simply have no pics of his current girlfriend and like to imagine something he knows from experience. That's not good, but it's definitely not cheating. If it was, every single person who has thought of someone else during sex is a cheat too.
Cheating starts in ones thoughts and feelings. If you're still hung up on your ex to the point that you're keeping photos to get sexual gratification, it's just as bad as sleeping with the person outright. If I ever found that my girlfriend would keep nude pics of her exes to get off on, best believe she'd be single. No question.
#59 what utter nonsense?? If you haven't got a pic of your new girlfriend, ask. If she doesn't want to then use porn for her emotional sake, it's obvious that this is cheating. You have emotions attached to that naked picture, it's not just a random girl. He still has the desire to have sex with his ex over OP, if given the chance you think he wouldn't at least think about it? He is a cheater, and your perception of a healthy relationship is severely deluded.
73- Still a big no no. Masturbating is normal and healthy, and it's normal to have "fap material", yes, but when that "fap material" is secret pictures of your exes, that just isn't right. Women are just as sexual as men- would you be okay with it if you found a secret stash of naked pictures of your girlfriend's jacked ex boyfriends?
You dont know anything besides her boyfriend had his ex girlfriends nudes on his new phone. Coulda been a sync fuck up, maybe she sent it to him and it automatically saved, or maybe hes a cheater. I dont know, you dont know, only the op and her boyfriend know. But i definantly know the boyfriend is in deep shit