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By Anonymous - / Wednesday 30 December 2016 15:21 / Canada - Aurora
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  Nessco  |  36

Talk to her about it. It will be for the best for both of you. If she's done it before to other guys who said it was good (and probably lied about it), just let her know that everyone is different and this is the way you like it.

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In general the best thing to do is to give positive reinforcement whenever she does something you actually like. A few "That feels really good" type comments will quickly help her pick up on what feels good to you.

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  fakedsincerity  |  32

Exactly. That goes for any sexual act, ask for what you want. It doesn't have to be harsh be like "that feels good BUT this feels even better" and your partner will understand your body without feeling bad about it. Communicate! (:

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  ThatOneChick856  |  35

Even if it wasn't her first blowjob, it was definitely the first one she gave to him. So even if she's given a million dudes a blowjob, this new step in the relationship still requires her to learn exactly what he likes.

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  NickACD  |  27

I think if she had blown a million guys she would have a long list of STDs with checks in the boxes next to most.

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  okokalright  |  15

I hate when people lie to spare their partners feelings. Relationships are about communication. You're just depriving yourself of a good time if you don't tell her

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  shiba10  |  26

Yeah I agree and it's a push towards the right direction. It's better if she knows earlier rather then later so she doesn't get a bad habit.

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  LeashaJoy5595  |  28

It was actually OP's first bj, not hers. Let's cut him some slack, maybe he didn't know how to correct her. That can be an awkward thing for someone new to anything sexual

By  MsConfusedd  |  27

Or you could have told her to change what she was doing and she would probably have happily complied? If she's willing to blow you, she's willing to listen to you and adjust to make you happy. That's how a relationship works

By  Skycop_S  |  23

What did I just read.. ?

By  traveveland  |  16

ey I'm from ontario too. my first bj was like that too. but I told her to lay off the teeth. except I hurt her feelings cause I said " are you a beaver?" she said no so I said so stop skinning my fucking wood there's deffs better ways of saying it

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  CogadhTallon  |  16

Netflix and chill :)

By  dyoy_87  |  20

Well, that's a first a man not wanting to finish getting a blowjob

By  squizzlebee  |  17

Or maybe instead you could have let her know? She's never going to improve if she doesn't know she's not doing it properly, you're just making it worse for you in the long run.

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