Today, my boyfriend of 2 months and I had sex for the first time last night. This afternoon he texted me saying, "I had an amazing night with you yesterday." Following that text he said, "I forgot to tell you I have an STD." FML
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MRSwick2525 23
What a dirt bag moves on his part. Hopefully you used protection OP. Get to a Doctor as soon as possible to get checked!!!
leopardwilliam 22
I'm hoping you wore protection, but I'm guessing you didn't
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Comments (247)
Mynamewontfi 40
I know the FMLcommunity is quick to say dump him over small matters, but over this, I'd say: dump him. You don't just forget to say something like that.
joljenni 6
You can contract an STD with the use of a condom. If any fluid or if any skin contact that is affected touches her she can potentially be infected. STD's affect everything down there, not only the penis.
LilyLi 19
What a selfish asshole. Hopefully it was bacterial, not viral, so you at least have a chance at getting rid of it. :/
CliffyB03 28
I know this will be downvoted. But. This is why you don't have sex with someone early on
rebamoo 14
I agree! If you're gonna sleep around, make each guy prove he's clean first. But there's more to sex than pleasure or reproduction. So many people have sex on the first or second date, which is just sad.
EbyKat 16
No, This is why you be a grown up and talk about std's and get tested.
Keiraquarium 12
I see your point but I agree with #45. It's possible that OP's boyfriend would have neglected to tell him/her about his STD even if they'd waited for a year or more before having sex. Having a talk about STDs and getting tested is the smart thing to do. (Although I guess it's a bit different in this guy's case because he's already been tested and still didn't tell OP). My point is that someone could have an STD no matter how long you wait before having sex with them.
a1_z9 10
Liars will lie (or 'forget') however many months you've been dating them.
MandieL 27
My husband and I both got tested when we started dating and were in the room together when our doctors told us the results. This way there is no chance of deceit from either party.
candicorn 23
What does this have to do with having sex "early on"? This guy sounds selfish and manipulative - you don't just "forget" that you have an STD before having sex with someone. I don't see any reason to believe OP would have avoided this if she had waited longer before having sex. If he lied now (or lied by omission) why do you think he would tell the truth later? When or how soon someone chooses to have sex is a personal decision. To each their own - don't try to make people feel bad for making different choices than you would.
a1_z9 10
The only waiting I did when it came to my husband was waiting for his test results. He was pretty sure he was clean but did it anyway because that's what responsible adults do. So in that respect, yup waiting is good.
shanson 22
Definitely illegal for him to not tell you first
bad_boyfriend 10
Unless he has HIV, you are incorrect. You dont have any legal responsibility to tell your partner you have an STD (except HIV as I said)
darkthunda1324 6
Well now you know and knowing is half the battle
rebamoo 14
What a DICK. I'm pretty sure it's illegal to knowingly give someone an STD without telling them beforehand. You should look into that. He didn't "forget" he just wanted to have sex with you and knew you'd refuse if you knew he had an STD. Selfish asshole.
EbyKat 16
If you are comfortable enough with someone to get naked and have sex you should also be comfortable enough to have a talk about std's. You don't deserve it but hopefully you don't get anything from him and learn your lesson on this.
LegionRapier61 8
That is horrible... You should press charges; if he was aware that he had an STD then he was obligated to inform you before anything happened.
GeorgiaBea 28
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That is entirely your fault. Unless he straight up lied to you about it, that is a conversation an adult has before having sex. This wasn't some hook up- it's your boyfriend. If you can't talk about it then you shouldn't be having sex.
enxhi96 21
I agree, maybe he "forgot" to tell you, so why didn't you do your part and ask if he had any STDs?? ALWAYS talk about this before having sex with someone!! And use protection. That's why it exists.
DoomedGemini 38
You don't "forget" you have a STD, that's bullshit. He knew she wouldn't have sex with him, if she asked he probably would have lied.