I kinda wish I knew more details so I could decide if she really had it bad or is just a whiney bitch...

Assholes like OP's husband makes us guys look bad!

Most definitely concur, the dicks always seem to represent the majority, whilst the majority aren't dicks.

Your husband impregnates you and then refuses to care for you? What a sweetheart.

Hey, at least he didn't throw her out into the streets, 1000 miles away from your parent's house.

oh, the memories.....

He should definitely help, it takes two to make a baby and it takes just as many for the rest of the process

My hubby never did anything for me either :( He would just say to stop complaining because I was the one that wanted to be pregnant so I have no right to complain about it.

Honestly, if your hubby didn't want you to get pregnant, you do deserve that. Forcing a child upon someone is an awful thing to do, and that goes both ways.

How do you know the husband "does t want a child"? Are you psychic or some shit? I wish people on this site wouldn't come to conclusions like this, it's fucking ridiculous!

59, calm down buddy. she said im her comment she was the one who wanted to get pregnant, it's implied he didn't, or else she wouldn't say what she did.

61 - She never said who wanted the baby or not, and there's no implication whatsoever.

54- They could have been trying for a child, or it may have been an accident. Regardless, it takes two to tango, and creating a baby is always a risk you run when you have sex. She's not forcing it on her husband, because he would have already been aware of the risks when he had sex with her. Sure, there's a slim possibility that OP could have faked being on birth control or something of that sort, but the majority of people don't actually do that kind of thing. The only way that I could see him being morally exempt from being supportive of her and that child would be if the two of them had a prior agreement that they would not have children together. Otherwise, he's her husband, and it's time to take responsibility for what they have done. He can't just refuse to deal with it if there was no foul play involved and he was aware of the risks, or if he was aware that his wife would likely not be having an abortion should they accidentally make her pregnant.

Way too long a reply dude. Way too long

59- You're coming to the conclusion that the husband wanted the baby just the same as 54 came to the conclusion he didn't, there just isn't enough information. For all we know her husband just doesn't have time and OP percieves it the way she does, but again not enough info. All we can do is either hope OP replies with more info or we just trust what is said.

#69- I know this is old, but I just wanted to throw in my opinion. I agree with it all up until the "morally acceptable to not be supportive" point. As you said, they were BOTH aware of the risks and they BOTH decided to take that chance- prior agreement to not have kids or not. She shouldn't be the only one dealing with the pregnancy because he doesn't feel like he should be supportive because it's JUST as much his fault this happened as it is hers. So no, he still must be supportive of and caring for her, whether he is grumbling under his breath as he does it or not.

You don't say!

That's fucking hilarious!! Hahaha

Three terrible comments in a row. Hopefully I could be the fourth. Ummm.... that was a shaky situation! Get it? VIBRATORS SHAKE!

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I enjoy the site, and I shall continue to use it. Thanks for the input though. (:

[insert a compliment on how 42 looks very beautiful]

45 - you got me blushing and such.

How do you know you have a non-existent sex life? You hit on girls on FML stories. #WhatIsLife

38 You get an up vote for your picture.

(I'm going to thread jack this because its turning into a bf ) see mom I told you that they were good for something.

You sound very mature.

Bacon tastes good

op has a vibrator. She should use it instead of him until he gives her a massage.

If OP's husband won't even give her a massage while she's pregnant, something tells me he might be the kind of person who doesn't even want to look at her let alone have sex with her.

But what if when he's/she's older and he/she shows the fancy "massage stick" to his/her friends O.o

#60, I'm sure by that point the kid will also be old enough to think "Oh, hey, this is shaped like a dick". If they're old enough to ask about vibrators, then they're old enough to know what a penis looks like.

Good to know!

Is it because you do the same???

No her fridge would never get her pregnant! no matter how romantic it got.

Sound advice indeed. I am sure the husband would not mind paying for it, and if a massage is done wrong it can actually induce her.

Err - have you properly read the FML? Her husband would probably refuse to pay a dime as he doesn't give a crap.

25- the place i get massages at advertises one done specially for pregnant women. so i'm sure they try their very hardest to not induce.

just watch the feet. certain areas if you press long enough will induce her. I'm a massage therapist.

Exactly... Poor OP will have her work cut out for her.

Who will probably yell at you when your kid cries for even a second.

They have one. It's called a Hitachi Magic Wand. :-)