wow thats what you get for asking around and not doing anything about it. go to the gym, stop eating fries, do something other than look for compliments. and btw, your bf is lying, no one likes fat chicks.

I agree, Meek: Real women have curves.

Insulting fat girls is just as bad as insulting skinny girls. A real woman should not be determinated by her physique.

OP YDI for saying it first. What else what he supposed to say without lying?

i agree YDI for fishing for complements

I agree; if anything, the guy is a smooth talker.

I agree as well. Shit like that is a trap. No matter what you say it's the wrong answer...and saying nothing is even worse. We're just screwed all around.

40- Actually, your wording is making me think…maybe the reason most women don't like sex as much as men is because they've already screwed them all day with their behavior. OP, I agree with this comment thread. If you're on the chubby side/fat, then don't tell people about it and expect tell you you're skinny or badmouth thinner girls or whatever. What your boyfriend said was probably the best thing- he didn't lie and he accepts you the way you are (even though maaaaybe his wording could be a bit better. Still, not gonna call him out for that since a lot of guys aren't great with words.) Although you might have issues with it, the reality is that as long as you're healthy, your size (not weight- SIZE) will do what it wants. You just need to embrace it. If your weight is really messing with your self-esteem, then you could try losing some, although I understand that it's easier said than done. But it CAN be done, so… good luck if you try it. I would say YDI for fishing for compliments, but you kind of sound like you really need some help for your self-esteem issues if you want to be called skinny even when you're not.

Welp the truth comes out ?

she was telling her boyfriend about what makes her self conscious!! that's not fishing for compliments, it's opening up to him!

That'd make me feel better if I were a girl. Knowing I could get fat and he'd still want me.

Shut up be nice