Especially since OP is actually already married and not just dating. They chose to spend their lives together, he should definitely be looking for more than sex.

20- Exactly! I mean, I know I'm young and whatever but, when I do get married, I want some sort of balance. It can't be all about sex, there's soo much more to a healthy relationship.

He'll just give himself a stranger

Exactly. It's not about sex after 10 years; it's about quiet... Kidding! It's about making each other happy.

People change. Before he got married to OP, he might have been just a "sweet" and fun-loving guy and OP might have enjoyed it too. But well, people change ...

I don't get why you are getting thumbed down 25. You are exactly right.

Why only look for more than sex after marriage? Why not in a relationship as well?

94- I said ESPECIALLY after marriage, not only.

Well they shouldn't just cut sex out of their relationship completely, its good for a marriage when the two partners have regular sex, but yes I agree it shouldn't all be about sex. Romantic dinners and such are always the best things, because you can have a romantic dinner then sex!

If someone has a high sex drive, you cannot stop them. if they're not getting what they want at home, they'll find it some place else.

There are more of us girls then guys. Find a place where that is not the case and guys will be pretty nice to you.

I agree with Op. I would like to do something else like play video games or go hang with friends or watch a movie or browse the web or play more games.

my girlfriend tries to make me sleep on my couch while she sleeps in my bed sometimes ... in MY house ..keyword tries ..

Don't blame ALL guys. Not all of them are like that.

Interesting, I've never heard that one before. What other relationship advice do you have for me?

One advice from me. If you were caught cheating, just say that you tripped and fell into a ******. Not that I think you would cheat though.

Maybe mentioning sex got him pretty horny. It's no big deal, I'm sure this conversation will blow over eventually(;

36- Some even simpler advice for you.. Don't cheat!

Your picture completely goes against what you just said.....

You know what I have to say to that? **** or gtfo.

14- it just a picture.. Maybe he thinks its funny? Cause It kinda is...

Marriage counciling is the death sentence on a marriage. If you need someone to help work out problems with your spouse, you aren't understanding enough to be in a relationship with them. Although maybe I'm just biased because I know someone who's wife divorced him for their marriage councilor

97 - I disagree with that completely. Sometimes people need help with communication, or someone else's point of view on the issues they're having.

119 - your world view is so screwed up. Life does not revolve around sex. And a healthy marriage is not based on only your sex life. If you can't think of anything else to do together then that is never a good sign.

Mhmm 4, because 69 is the only dinner for two.

That's not the only thing that's hard to swallow

Ginormous pills are hard to swallow... Damn multivitamins...

You could only wish this could have been realized BEFORE they got married, huh? :(

Haha true that! For some reason listening to women after ****** comes a bit easier.

*slow clap

Clarity of thought = sleep?

Happy early birthday

And it sucks but some guys need to get off and it's not fair to look down on a guy for it because it's a natural part of male biology that's been serving mankinds reproductive needs for countless generations, on the other hand to ask mid sentence does make this guy a dick

Remember this when you get married. Marry the person you love, not the person you think you can turn him into.

She shouldn't. She should tease the **** out of him, and then literally blow on his penis. :F

"No ******* shit she doesn't like to! Who likes putting dicks in their mouth? That's why they call it blow jobs! It's a job!" -Seth Rogen

yesssssssssss

Wrong.

So does your pun.

That sucks

So does your other pun.

You sound like op's husband...no it's not!

everyone must take 11's advice. he is clearly the most intelligent person on fml.

Oh shit, I always though the foundation of a relationship was mutual respect and friendship! How could I have gotten it so wrong? Ten years of marriage...it was all a sham! Dammit, Mrs. Bastard is going to be so disappointed.