By Username - 09/08/2011 21:21 - United States
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I see your point here, 239, though I do believe she was sad she had not had physical contact, which is why she posted this in the "intimacy" section. However, I agree with you that the focus should be on romance, or at least healthy and mutual relationships, and that the polar and extreme views on sex in our culture create unhealthy myths about sexuality...like you said, everyone who has sex has STD's, if you aren't a virgin, all of a sudden you are a slut, if you are a virgin, you're a prude or you're ugly, etc. I really hope the cultural media is a little less harsh for our next generation!
Don't worry, there are plenty of people in the same situation. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
I agree with you #4. It could be worse. I mean, I'm a guy who has never been asked about my love life. Because it is so obvious to anyone who looks at me that I don't even have one. And I honestly believe I probably never will too. Also, I have a hard time with eye contact in any situation thanks to my ADHD. I can't stand still or direct my attention to one thing for very long.
It's not a big deal(: You'll find someone soon. or.. just get drunk and maybe something will happen?(;