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  hatesfate  |  6

I would have just told her to fuck off and find a new guy to get dumped by. Obviously she doesn't believe in you and has trust issues if she didn't believe about your grandmothers death and needed photo proof...

  ruusk  |  6

My friend does, when he starts a new job he gets happy as he realises he gets his grandparents back for future funeral days off! Sick I know...

By  evilplatypus  |  38

I'm afraid I have to say YDI on this one. You need to respect yourself enough not to date someone who's paranoid and obviously doesn't trust you. Trust is the foundation of any functional relationship. If that isn't there, you're going to be miserable as long as you're together.

  ambamm135  |  7

18 of course "because all guys are the same" right? For all we know his girl is a crazy bitch. But since we don't know the facts lets keep our stereotypes to ourselves yes? Sorry I hate it when girls use that silly excuse to put guys down.


46 I don't know why but your comment, harsh as it was, made me laugh. And yeah 18 must be one of those girls who thinks all guys are pigs and will be probably never marry and bring sorrow to every female friend/relative of hers who ever thinks of marrying etc.

  minagiv  |  11

Truth. I have complete trust in my husband. That's how it should be.

And 18, usually the accuser is the one that's cheating, and in their guilt, accuse their partner of the same.

  xStaciexLynnx  |  15

65- 18 may also be a girl who was just recently cheated on and is still hurt from the experience. But hey, if you wanna make her the crazy cat lady right away, it's fine.


Whether she just got out of a bad relationship or not, it shouldn't be taken out on op, he more than likely has nothing to do with that. Even if she had a reason to be psychotically paranoid of him, she shouldn't be dating someone she doesn't trust and op shouldn't even put up with that, especially if he hasn't done anything to be untrustworthy. I know you can't always help who you love, but if op won't do something about the situation and gives into it like that, then he shouldn't complain about it.


91- your icon fits your comment far too well lol!

But yes, trust is the foundation of any relationship. If op's gf is that distrustful either they need to do some major therapy or it will not work in the long run.


how do you even know what has happened in their relationship? yeah, it's pretty damn extreme but she probably has a pretty justified reason for not trusting him. but hey, I have no idea :) and if she has no reason not to trust him, you are totally correct!

  pinkcrayola  |  0

They might not have dated long enough for that. If they're a relatively new couple, it might have been inappropriate for OP to bring her with him to something like that. Either way, she should have offered condolences instead of being a bitch.

  shoopd  |  19

I think OP should have asked for a photo of where she was right back. Make sure her excuse for missing the funeral was legit. Maybe then she would have realized how ridiculous her request was.


Not to mention, if OP was lying about being at his grandma's funeral just to step out on his girlfriend he'd be a scumbag. I'd like to think a vast majority of men or women wouldnt sink that low just to get away with cheating :/