By Anonymous - 22/12/2011 05:50 - United States
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Haha the imagination and mind do crazy things huh? Nah you need a new shrink
People tend to imagine others to be what they want and not who that person really is, especially in the beginning of a relationship. Certain anxiety and depression disorders can make this worse and when reality sets in, it can be painful. I don't think the Pdoc meant if the person was real, but rather the persona that the op is viewing him as. It is healthy to sit back and evaluate how you are idealizing someone, otherwise you can set yourself up for a massive crash.
Why see a shrink when you could have just told your diary. Diaries never question things, like the validity of your real or maybe not real soulmate.