By ilu.xo - 13/01/2010 06:11 - Canada
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Yay. First post. At least it's only been 3 months. It's not too late to dump him
LOL, are you serious? Op is not shallow for wanting a 30 year old guy to not live with parents. that's just pathetic. and no it's not about the money, it's about being independent when you're 30. since you're defending his ass I bet you're some lame middle aged man living in your parents' basement. grow up.
Today's economy is NOT what it was 150 years ago, 100 years ago, 50 years ago. It is HARD to find a new place to live, and generally not worth the trouble. I may well live with my parents, or other family, for a long time to come, even when I do have other options; I'll pay rent, of course, but not leave. Women need to get over that antiquated garbage. Yes, once you are ready to start having kids, get together with EACH OTHER and start a family, you need to be able to afford some kind of place of your own. But until then, don't damn a man just because he's being practical.