^^^^ THIS!

THIS! A thousand times THIS!^^^

"I mean, what do you say if you run into them on a midnight trip to the bathroom?" How about, "Oh, hi, I'm your sons girlfriend". Are you 14? It's not that awkward. "I learned that she would clean his room and bathroom for him all the time. " I hope there's more to this that you left out. I offer to clean people's rooms and bathrooms for them all the time, whether I live there or not, because it's uncomfortable for ME to be around that. I lived in a 2br2ba with an ex a long time ago, we each had our own room and own bathroom, he snored thus our own bedrooms, and I'm a clean freak thus my own bathroom. Anyway sometimes I was SO disgusted by the shape of his bathroom that I would clean it for him. I cleaned my best friends little brother's bedroom because it was a complete mess, just to be nice. My boyfriend's best friend's wife cleaned his bathroom for him when he lived on his own before he met me, because she "felt sorry for any girls that would come over". I mean, it's your life and you can pick who to be in it on your own with whatever standards you want. there are a lot of people out there. But everyone is different. You might find someone perfect who is a serial killer. ;)

I agree with idkweird.

Alex: Yes, there was more. Mostly, the fact that he was a 37 year old man who's sister cleaned his room on a weekly basis. There was honestly no reason to be in his room as she had a suite to herself upstairs. Also, it was that he expected me to keep our place spotless (when he moved in with me) and he had no idea how to clean. He would shove things in drawers so that the place looked clean on the outside. Oh, also, he was the baby of the family and a freaking mama's boy. I wont date one of those again. On his 39th bday, he accidentally invited me to dinner and then she asked that it just be them because she wanted her "baby" all to herself. All I could think was, "Lady! Your baby is almost 40. Time to cut the umbilical cord!" He was so used to growing up having everyone do everything for him, that it was ridiculous. He didn't know how to work the remote (change to aux. He'd change my TV to Spanish all the time. How the hell can you not read and comprehend a TV menu?) OR when his toilet was running, he didn't know how to stop it. I got fed up, walked in, took the back off and fixed it. He was amazed. Sorry, but at almost 40, you should be a little more self-sufficient. Im 27, and I would STILL find it akward to run into my bf's parents in their house in the middle of the night. I was basically referring to the post-sex bathroom trip. Sorry, even at my age, my mother does not allow unmarried couples to sleep in the same room in her house. Same, actually, goes for my bf's parents. He's 31. It's just a show of respect for the person who's house it is.

Also, God forgive me for speaking ill of the dead. My ex's mother was a wonderful person and always loved me and treated me well!

It sounds like he more has issues with what a mans and womans work is than anything else... if he expects women to clean up after him and has no idea how to do it himself. :/ Wow @ the extent of his uselessness. I had no idea people like that existed! I've had sex in my BF's mothers house with his parents there (even his grandparents house, oops, I feel a little dirty. But they're so old fashioned that they don't even want us LIVING together until we're married. We keep that part a secret, too.)... you don't have to tell them you just had sex. ;x Though my "MIL" lets us sleep in the same bed. I suspect she knows exactly what we're doing... they're old hippies.

i agree.....he must of been pathetic