Kids nowadays with their different rules of what constitutes cheating... Different area code - not cheating Over the clothes touching - not cheating Kissing with no tongue - not cheating I was drunk and don't remember - not cheating etc... It's so sad but don't worry though. Karma will get her back.

That's a great excuse. "I didn't cum THAT hard so it's not really cheating."

Haha. and #19 is partially right.... this girl is secretly angry and pissed off at you that you have wasted 5 years of her life without asking her to marry you. At least, that's how she sees it. Like #19 said, you dragged your feet. She, of course, being a typical girl afraid to say what she's really feeling, instead f*cked another guy and let you find out. Then she gives a pre-planned excuse that she knows will piss you off, in the hopes it ruins YOUR life back! She hopes you will either just dump her now (and save her the trouble), or perhaps realize that you needa close the deal quick. But to be honest... my suggestion? Don't stay with a girl like this, because it's not going to work in the long run. These types of women are the type who have multiple divorces and ruined relationships throughout their life, solely based on their inability to adequately portray or tell their feelings, thoughts, and emotions. So even if you did stay with her, you are likely going to do something "wrong" in the future, and she isn't going to MENTION that "wrong thing" (in her mind) to you, and that said "wrong thing" is gonna cause her to slowly but surely distance herself from you, make her resentful of you, and/or cheat on you or break up with you. ....The saddest part? She will be doing it to herself, based on her inability to show her feelings. But these women also tend to be slightly self-absorbed or narcissistic, and they can't see other peoples points of view well; therefore, they don't understand how you don't automatically feel and think what she is feeling and thinking. So like I said.... GTFO QUICK! Oh, and do what I said in number 84- slap a hoe on the way out.

this sucks dude sorry and #32 hahaha i agreeee pimp slap her and walkk away man

What a bitch! People like that give women a bad name.

#93: I see where you are coming from, but not all girls don't say what they feel. Quite a few guys I know don't say what they are feeling, they just say bored. I personally say whatever comes to my mind, yes I do. And my whole family is like that, much easier. But you should get out, she is a horrible person and a ******* bitch. You sound sweet. What a ****.

2 things u can do... 1) pretend to forgive her, then get it to the bedroom, just before ur about to seal the deal tell her ur not hard enough and dump her ass. 2) get her to give u a ********, cum in her mouth and while she is gaggin dump that bitch! but yea, it sucks when she cheats on you, at least u didnt see her cheat on you or anything right! and yea there is no excuse for some1 who cheats!

#19 A relationship is a relationship, not a game. If your relationships involve cheating to get the other to try more or whatever, I feel really sorry for you.

I feel, you man. "i didn't even get wet." "it wasn't good" Fml

Wow, she kind of sounds like an idiot. She probably uses that "It's not a lie unless you get caught" philosophy. DEFINITELY the kind of girl to stay away from.

SHE'S A ****** HOE! HOE HOE HOE HOE HOE HOE HOE! Seriously, how slutty could you be? I didn't cum so its not cheating. OMG, She's ******* stupid. I hope she gets an STD. Because that's is some of the dumbest shit I've ever heard. ****!

and if the balls don't touch...