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  genius_man16  |  0

YDI YDI YDI YDI YDI YDI x 9999999999999999

If you've really been in love with him for 4 years then you should have told him. The worst he could say is he didn't feel the same and you could have gotten over it.

I have no sympathy for people who don't express their feelings.

  STVader  |  0

I call BS, she's never hugged him before? Girls hug guys all the time, all my chick friends give me hugs whenever I see them...and she didn't give him a single hug in 4 years? That's some bullshit right there...

  dan81892  |  2

exactly, #68. also, YDI for using the phrase "the man i have been in love with". your little crush on him where he doesn't like you back isn't being "in love"

  Glassheart24  |  0

I disagree. What if she really just loved the man so much that she didn't want him to be uncomfortable or have to feel like he's hurting her by marrying someone else? That's not something that should be critisized or laughed at.

  MR_OHCRAP  |  0

I agree with #2 and #21. I mean, seriously, some FMLs lately have been about some person not having the guts to spill the beans ( :D ) to the person they like. Seriously, if you aren't gonna get the balls to do it, be prepared to be disappointed. YDI. Your life is fucked because you are too wishy-washy. Your own fault. No pity.


I KNOW.. gawd, these fucking losers should (A) get some self esteem/dignity (B) grow a fucking spine, so they won't DIE A VIRGIN. shit.

OP has known this man for FOUR YEARS and never hugged him? And is "in love" with him and whining about how he married someone else when she never had the guts to EVER say anything when he was single? Dear lord...

  kasumirock  |  13

I agree with this. If you never tell someone how you feel then why are you so surprised that they found someone else. It really isn't THAT difficult to say, "Hey, I like you."

  jeremymg91  |  0

No but seriously how can someone fall in love with someone they've never even been with. I'm not telling her or anyone else to stfu i'm just saying it's pitiful and rediculous to be in love with someone you've never dated.


fat girl likes the normal guy who talks to her and awknowledged her as a person.
fat girl is WAY too self concious to do anything about it.
fat girls better looking bff gets with guy.
nuff said
plausable scenario
obvious results
its not hard to fall in love with someone who cares for you...its just a lil fucked considering you dont know them as well.
not to mention "first time i've hugged..."


come to think about it, this may not even BE about hte fact that she quote-unquote "loved him"
maybe the actual fact that she "hesitated and has to masturbate"
lol not hating, just saying
your posts have been quite negative -.-
nonetheless, there are many different situations where this could occur


It's ridiculous you can't spell ridiculous.

It's perfectly plausible for someone to fall in love with someone they're not dating. If they're a friend, or something. It's just as possible, actually.

  rerataylor75  |  0

Thats not true. Just because she's in love with her best guy friend doesn't make her desperate. But because you think that, it just makes you pathetic. You can't judge somebody when you know nothing about the situation. People who think like you are exactly the reason why our society is the way it is. Give people the benefit of the doubt, man.

  wow18  |  3

Friends shouldn't do that kind of thing because the man obviously was never into the OP and her telling her friend to back-off will only result in a couple(who could possibly have a happy ever after) not even getting together. It wouldn't really do any good to anyone.