By Anonymous - 21/04/2011 13:47 - United States
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This is a compliment, usually if a guy didn't care about you he wouldn't stay for the cuddling
#110, how is he using her? Presumably they both enjoy the sex and he enjoys her company when they are not actually engaged in intercourse. It's not the most romantic thing ever said but it damn sure isn't an insult. OP, you've either got thin skin or no sense of humour. If this is a new relationship, he might be working his way up to telling you his feelings are deeper than just physical attraction.
Men can be very honest and direct with their thoughts. This is a compliment. You can have poetic rhetoric full of sound and passion, signifying nothing ... or you can have something deep and meaningful, sans elaborate presentation. Err on the meaningful and take the compliment.
its not sad, its how we are: once the sex is over, we actually feel the urge to sleep and be left alone, chemicals are released in our brains and focre us to be like that. I can tell, its a strong feeling. So yes, if your boyfriend is genuinely happy, tells you sweet things and wants to cuddle just right after he ejaculated, that means he genuinely loves you and you're lucky to be with a guy who cares that much about you. hope Im not being crude by saying that, but girls never seem to believe it. Its just a hard wired reaction that we guys have, thats just how we are..
Eddie - I'm not saying she's a nice person so she deserves better than that. I'm saying she's a lady and the phrase "so I can plow her again in 20min" is a little offensive. For all I know she could be a total bitch but I try to give people the benefit of the doubt.
the sooner you understand a guys compliments, the longer you stay in a relationship with us.
that may be so, but some guys compliment you just so they can fuck you over and over again. they do the bare minimum to lead you on to thinking they're serious about you, then one day, break up with you and start fucking someone else the same day... while living with their ex gf... sorry, kinda went off on that...
IT IS A COMPLIMENT!! if he leaves afterwards you would complain about that too. what's up with all the gripeing woman today? damn bitch fest.
83- i am a female, I'm not partial. I do understand. I side against a- holes. I also will admit that woman can and probably are the biggest shallowest bitches on the face of the planet. not all but alot. makes me want to grow a pair sometimes. it's alot about what can he do for me, rather than who his is deep. I don't mean to offend any ladies with class out there. please excuse me.. aaah im sure I'm going to get flooded with the thumbs down now...