Technically, anal does speak louder than words, in decibels...

First part is right but I mean second part might be a little extreme. It's not like anything was forced and maybe they just need to talk about it (I don't mean she should just listen to him I meant to sort him out). But yeah.

That couldn't possibly be any better off an idea. Kudos.

i don't think dumping him would be to harsh. if he doesn't say (and feel like it) that he loves her too but demands a prove of her love, which would be a favor for him, he's kind of a douchebag.

he sounds like someone who would seriously coerce someone into anal, which makes him a manipulative asshole. like I'd run for the hills if a guy said that to me. its basically 'you would if you loved me', which is the kinda thing my mum warned me about from creeps...

The bf already made it pretty clear he's not emotionally invested in the relationship with that response instead of reciprocating. She needs to tell him to shove off if she wants emotional investment and not being told anal sex will prove she loves him.

Exactly. If I poured my heart out to my bf for the first time and he responded with this, I'd say "you're right. I'll take this relationship and shove it up your ass." And then I'd leave.

Has anyone ever stopped to consider that he was making a joke and that OP misinterpreted it?

If they've been together long enough for OP to admit she loves him, I would SINCERELY HOPE she understands what he means most of the time -_-

My girlfriend is into anal.I am not.she claims that it helps when she get blocked up. I think she just likes how the strap on feels

#11, I don't think we needed to know that

Don't tell us what to think.

My thoughts exactly #6

Vote me down if you want but I think #11 made a pretty good joke.

#11, You could've mentioned that you were a lesbian (as it says in your profile) and then your comment might make more sense to the rest of us.

Ah and I thought it was pretty funny and coming from a guy. Thanks for letting the air outta that one

That's a tad extreme. Saying you want something doesn't mean you'll cheat to get it.

So saying I want $10 billion makes me a future bank robber?

@8 That logic is completely flawed. Just because there is one thing he wants that she won't do doesn't mean he will cheat.