So what you're saying is your 7 friends are all horrible at communication.

orgasms exist, gotta find what's right for each person. they aren't doing something right in their relationships

If your sex Ed was porn, you're probably constantly disappointed how tiny penises are in real life.

That is hella sad...

I assure you, real men are trainable. If you know what pleases you, what gets YOU off, you can absolutely train another to bring you to orgasm. It means being with someone you are very comfortable with, and with whom you can communicate. If you can't orgasm solo, your chances of getting there with a partner go way down. A huge percentage of women can't orgasm from penetrative intercourse alone, so you have to know your body and communicate, demonstrate, and be patient,

Sometimes it’s cause guys are selfish. Sometimes it’s because no one tells them different.

Time to do some internet research instead of porn. That and find the techniques that you can orgasm yourself.

Everyone is different. some people have one every go

Point being: don't worry about what porn stars do or what your friends do. enjoy your connection to your partner

That's a shame. I personally love it when my wife orgasms, especially when it's multiple times. If she's not satisfied, I'm not satisfied.