By namenlos - 27/05/2012 21:53 - Australia
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You did the right thing. We need to rid of these attention seeking whores.
Honestly (and I'm assuming that you called her out over Facebook) I think what you did was wrong. If you were anyone other than her BROTHER id be understandable. But brothers are supposed to be there for their sisters. Family doesn't mean shit to anyone anymore. I'm guessing you were just uncomfortable that she was posting revealing pictures. I hate attention whores on Facebook to but if it were my sister I'd just ignore it and not be a dick because that relationship is worth more than pictures on facebook. And it might seem like no big deal to you but I guarantee you she won't forget it and won't trust you as much. I hope to god youre not her older brother.
No I'm saying there's no reason to call people in your family out over facebook. It's public. Everyone says Facebook is so stupid and filled with attention whores but "calling her out" publicly is no better than what she did. He should've talked to her and said "hey you look stupid when you post shit like that, if I were you id take it down before some asshole says something rude to you." instead he ended up being the asshole. Sorry it's jut my opinion. Family means a lot to me.
77- Umm... Lol? Today when I was at school me and my friends were messing around on google images and I saw a pic. When I saw your comment I knew I had seen it. So I checked it again and there it was! You have a fake pic from google and now are saying you're a "cam whore" when you're probably an old creepy man. Here's the link: http://www.gaiaonline.com/profiles/beverlyr23/19498164/ CREEP!
How the fuck does she deserve this you sick pervert? OP was clearly in the wrong and got punished for her sister's dickery. You sir, are an asshole.
Are you guys fucking kidding me? "the tables have turned"? No. This disgusting excuse for a man who demands to see pictures of a teenage girl in a skimpy bathing suit, oh my bad,"deserves them", is being put aside so you guys can call out a girl who made an error because she didn't see the GENDER sign? Wow. You guys really need some common sense, AND a life. Imbeciles.
I cant describe how well you picture goes with the comment you made ... And boo fuckin hoo instead of making a scene on Facebook why not 1.talk to her in person 2. Call her 3. Text her ... So yeah I hate people who do that just make a big scene on Facebook over nothing
At least you didn't steal the picture and photo shop it so she really did look hideous & fat...I would've!
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Let her have her confidence, it's rare when a girl has that. And I hate fuckballs that put other people down because they weren't hugged enough as a child.
I don't see why this is getting thumbed down- a lot of girls are attention whores in that they look at everything and everyone and scream, "EW. EWWW. ATTENTION WHORE. I'M INTELLIGENT I'D NEVER BE LIKE HER BLAHBLAH." They try to put themselves above it, but only so their friends will go, "Oh my gosh, yes! You're so right!" Pathetic- they're even worse than traditional attention whores because they're hypocrites as well. YDI, OP, your sister being an attention whore doesn't give you the right to bitch her out somewhere public with the obvious intent of embarrassing her. That's just mean.
122- I honestly do think ops sister deserves to be embarrassed on Facebook by her brother saying that she was being an attention whore because, if you think you are fat you would not be posting pictures of yourself in a BIKINI on Facebook for everyone to see. Which was stupid so she deserves to be ridiculed for her lack of intelligence.
You were right to call her up for seeking attention that way. There are too many young girls seeking attention by posting provocative imagery on the Internet. However, you could have been a little bit more tactful OP. Perhaps talking with her in person about it, probably would have gone down a lot better. As for the grounding, if you explained why to your mum she may be a little more lenient.
We don't really know in what way her sister called her out on it. Perhaps she did talk to her about it and sis blew it out of proportion. OP: Look sis, what you're doing online is inappropriate and makes you look desperate for attention. People look down upon attention whores and don't respect them. Sis: Mom! [OP] called me a whore!
106, It doesn't say underage child. She could be of legal age (not that an arbitrary number means anything), and therefore you'd have no issue with it. To think being more conservative would improve the world is a little bit odd to say the least. The only way it would improve things is if you view the act in itself as wrong, as it affects no other areas of society. I really get annoyed when people make such ridiculous claims as to suggest that everything would be so much better if people wouldn't be so relaxed when it comes to covering up.
103.. She described the bikini as skimpy, so you're being dramatic. I have a feeling you don't have kids, or a daughter at least. I have a daughter and if she were to post pictures of herself in a skimpy bikini I would be disappointed that my baby girl felt the need to get revealed to everybody on the internet to make herself feel better.
*He described it as skimpy. I would be disappointed also, because of the way she is begging for attention and compliments like that. If she just took the photo without the absurd caption then it wouldn't be as big of an issue as a stand alone incident. Keep an eye out for other signs of problems, odds are it was completely innocent and nothing to be worked up over. Your child will eventually be growing up and discovering her sexuality, this needs to be embraced and nurtured like anything else - not shunned and inhibited. And congrats on thumbing up a comment you approved of. Yes, I will continue to downvote comments that disagree with my line of thinking...like...every other person as no doubt you thumbed mine down... Not quite sure why that deserved your public announcement.
You wouldn't know what class is if you've got a bunch of random perves on your facebook account rather than friends. And if you think nurturing of sexuality begins with your partner you're a little behind on that one. Something tells me it's going to suck for you when your daughter hits puberty. PS. You can say everything in one comment, and the point of not being sure why was rhetorical. I know why, it's because you're living up to the blonde stereotype.
Haha ok to your blond statement. Funny because I was an honor roll student. Also I know I can put it all in one, as you know I have kids and I take care of them, I'm on my app so if I don't post what I typed before I walk away to care for my children it will delete the comment. My daughter could easily add her classmates, it's very common. Some of them could very well be perverts. It's people like you who I would hate to see pictures of her. The one's who don't get to see females naked in real life, so they think it's great when they can photo stalk half naked girls online. Creep
234, Don't worry, I don't really think you're a simpleton, I just think you're more like the average person who doesn't really think objectively or critically. No need to go defending your intelligence, it was just an off the cuff comment. That said, your ability to do well at school means little in terms of intelligence. Good luck policing society when your daughter goes to the beach, goes swimming, just generally goes out in really hot weather wearing less clothing. People are going to look at her and find her attractive, this is a part of life, and yes you will think some of them are creepy perverts. I think the term "get some real problems" would apply here. Anyway, this is going nowhere, so let's just agree that I'm right, but you have an opinion too.
For the record, that -1 vote wasn't from me. Since apparently all my comment voting needs to be accounted for in this thread. Oh I also downvoted anyone who didn't agree with me, and voted my own comments up. Just so you all know, because, for some reason that is important. The -2 however, that was me :D
I wouldn't say you win. I'm not going to let her dress skimpy to the beach either. They do actually have swim suits that aren't skimpy, including 2 pieces. Im going to teach my daughter what's appropriate and what's not, based on my views. I've never posted skimpy pictures of myself and it didn't affect negatively. You act as if it's necessary for a girl to post revealing pictures of herself in order to develop sexually, that's far from the truth. One thing I'll agree on is to disagree because this is really wasting my time.
...Yes that was actually a joke. It may not have been funny to you, but I'd expect you to at least recognise the obvious sarcasm. You also missed the point of the beach comment. Then you put words into my mouth, at no point did I say or even imply that to develop sexually girls will need to take photos of themselves. You've obviously missed the point.
Punch who? The mom? I don't know about you, but if I punched my mom I would never hear the end of it and would probably be grounded for a whole lot longer than one month. If you mean the sister, then that still doesn't solve OP's problem and would probably get OP into more trouble.
If she wants to feel better about herself, posting barely clothed photos on Facebook wont help that! She needs to get up from the computer and take a jog instead!