By outoflove - 30/06/2014 21:06 - United States - Rockport
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Betrayed by the people you are supposed to trust the most is just horrible.
I define family as the people who loves you and nurtures your heart. Not some cold home-wrecking bitches who lies and stabs you in the back. If I were OP, I'd divorce the piece of shit husband, beat the crap out of the sisters, and never talk to any of them again. Some people just don't deserve to be a part of your life.
#30, it's still very heartbreaking to have a spouse betray you. If the person you're supposed to spend your life with is disloyal like that, it takes its toll. Same can be said for a family member. They're /family/ and for them to, not only encourage, but to partake in the affair... Just wow. /: I'm so sorry, OP. I do hope you can recover from this a stronger person. None of those people deserve you.
Karma is going to have a field day with these Bitches! Plus, no divorce judge will look kindly upon a man that cheated with your sister. I honestly am so disgusted at your sisters actions that I'm damn near speechless. First, it's disgusting that your sister woukd have an affair with your husband. But, I find it absolutely revolting that your other sister would encourage it. OP, I am so sorry that this has happened. You should have been able to find comfort, love, and support from your sisters, not betrayal.
Families are complicated, but also sometimes simple. Glad you had an easy time with your blood Lil_Red, but not everyone has it so. For example, you may still love and care about your parents, who in turn would be crushed to see you cutting ties with your siblings. So no, it's not always very easy actually.
And out of those three, your husband is the smallest level of asshole.
I actually agree with 27. Siblings are stuck with eachother. Sometimes they mix well, sometimes they don't. A husband chose to spend the rest of his life with you. Sibling trust is the "Free" space on a bingo card; comes with the package. Spousal trust has been carefully selected, and in my opinion is worth more. Not to say that sibling relationships are meaningless, just that a soul mate betraying you is probably more painful.
Couldn't agree more 55. You can't choose your family, you don't make vows to them, you don't commit your life to them. Your spouse is your closest family, your next of kin. Not sure why FML readers are more angered by sisterly betrayal than spouse, maybe it's an age thing...