That friend is so comfortable around you he’s his true self! Instead of wanting to change him, change your interpretation of his actions.
Don’t react to his texts, don’t even mention them to your husband. Just read, ignore and carry on with your day.
Take the “fun” out of it. Be the bigger person.

And by the way, who cares if he’s inappropriate? You love your husband and you’re faithful so what’s the problem?

Ah yes, the old "so what if a man is sexually harassing and making you uncomfortable, it's YOUR fault for making a big deal about it. He's your husband's friend so it's your job to keep the peace and gloss over it because it's not like your husband can be expected to not want his wife being harassed with obscene texts. Be reasonable! All men love thier wife being harassed by their friends! It's totally normal!"

I am terrible with people but maybe your husband trusts you to not cheat on him and sees his friends shitty behavior as not enough to cut ties with?

It's not a matter of "will my wife cheat on me?" That's a selfish interpretation. If a man hears his wife complain that his friend is making her uncomfortable, his thoughts should be about how she's uncomfortable. It shouldn't stop with "my wife is uncomfortable with my friend's sexual texts. Will my wife cheat on me with my friend? No? Then sexually harassing her is a-ok with me."

Send him disturbing things back, things that will make guys uncomfortable. He probably enjoys making you uncomfortable. And by the way your husband is a wuss

Used tampons should do it

FAQs about yeast infections is even better

This! Great idea! Send him text like you'd like to dip his dick in poo and have him lick it.
Or you want to make him drink your period.
Or just block his number.

so is hubby on the couch

Does his name rhyme with Blonald Blump?

Lot of guys in the MAGA crowd would gladly throw their wives under the Access Hollywood bus to appease the dark lord.

You’re an idiot.

block his number and ignore him completely. you dont have to deal with sexual harassment and your husbands a dumbass for not caring how uncomfortable it makes you.

That is true. You are being sexually harrassed and your husband is not standing up for you. What the actual fuck!?

Get your husband to pose for dick pics and send them to the creep.

First off, she said inappropriate texts. not discusting ones, or sexual ones. Second, if she didn't like the guy doing those things, she would have blocked his number and banned him from the house. The problem is she is more attracted to the other guy. She uses "fighting" with her husband to hide her feelings for him. She said he blatantly disrespects thier marriage, but never said anything he says is lies or untrue.

A wonderful rationale of victim blaming

WTF? Now I know where the term "mansplaining" comes from. Thanks for being a douchebag and reflecting on the rest of us guys who don't have our heads up our asses.

Probably true

leave, get help, or suck it up. this is a real life, and social media isn't gonna help ya, champ.