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Crowned Sataness
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no, he's been super shitty the entire time, just in different ways. his behavior in both cases is unacceptable. why are you tolerating it? you're not his property
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jasonsmall718
| 11
I'm confused. Why has he been able to tell you what to do?
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jasonsmall718
| 11
I'm confused. Why has he been able to tell you what to do?
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My guess, because she's been stuck at home in quarantine with him
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chyiochan
| 30
Probably because he's working and she's not, so he gave her a honey-do-list daily and she in turn felt like she had to listen to everything he said to make up not being able to work.
Yeah, if you can't work you should do more things around the house so your working spouse doesn't have to! But does OP's husband have to be an absolute asshole over it because he doesn't hold some sort of high ground over her? It wasn't OP's choice to lose her job, and a balance in taking care of chores and responsibilities is normal. His approach is not and neither is his nasty superiority attitude.
Yeah, if you can't work you should do more things around the house so your working spouse doesn't have to! But does OP's husband have to be an absolute asshole over it because he doesn't hold some sort of high ground over her? It wasn't OP's choice to lose her job, and a balance in taking care of chores and responsibilities is normal. His approach is not and neither is his nasty superiority attitude.
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AmbrosiaFan
| 18
Are you ok with him being a controlling prick? Ugh...
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RichardPencil
| 28
Make me a pie, and bring me my slippers. Go mow the back yard -- that grass ain't gonna cut itself.
That does make me happy!
That does make me happy!
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Crowned Sataness
| 2
no, he's been super shitty the entire time, just in different ways. his behavior in both cases is unacceptable. why are you tolerating it? you're not his property
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123Puppy
| 27
That’s a toxic relationship. :(
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alex_jaguara
| 28
Tell him, not us, if he doesn't do something about his behaviour, you'll move out(not necessarily divorce)
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LiLMAMA0523
| 34
What you allow, is what will continue.
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stealthPastry
| 14
Um... run!
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J15237
| 19
sounds like it is very much time for you to go back to being super single. Screw your husband and enjoy your life. find someone who will treat you right.
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Mary Margaret
| 3
This is domestic abuse. Pure and simple. You need to find a safe way to leave. There are domestic violence hotlines and shelters that can help.
It might not seem so bad when you are in it. But once you get out, you will realize just how much abuse there was.
Hide your money, make a plan, leave.
Abusers get worse if they think you are going to leave and right after. Be safe.
His behavior will get worse. You are not safe.
It might not seem so bad when you are in it. But once you get out, you will realize just how much abuse there was.
Hide your money, make a plan, leave.
Abusers get worse if they think you are going to leave and right after. Be safe.
His behavior will get worse. You are not safe.