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Totally deserved it. You obviously did not learn what negging is and probably will not ever get it. You never put a woman down or be negative to her like that. You do not make her feel "less than". You want her to feel like you are " more than". But without ruining her self esteem. You have to figure out the light jovial things and "lightly" make fun of her but something she can laugh at too. Not tell her that she obviously didn't put much effort in and looks like shit. Eeesh.
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Well of course women don't like it, the whole point of negging is to pay her a compliment but at the same time make her feel bad about herself. I guess the point is to try and make her compensate with sex for her supposed inadequacies.
That seems like a difficult thing to put into a complement.
The only way I could possibly feel bad for op is in understanding that women do make it very difficult to approach them sometimes and how they expect a guy to catch their attention, but the way op worded this fml makes it pretty clear what he was after so he deserved what came to him.
Yeah, girls tend to do that if you use cheesy pick-up lines or stupid "techniques".
What's that one word people use for guys like you? Oh yeah; Asshole.
I'm not condoning what OP did, it was stupid. But using physical violence because some random guy at a club insulted you? Thats really screwed up. Imagine the outrage on this site if it were reversed, and some guy slammed his knee into a girl for insulting him. OP tried some lame technique to pick up girls because he obviously is still learning. He doesn't deserve to be assaulted because of it.
I remember getting constantly hit in the balls in high school because girls thought it was funny when they caused guys testicular pain. I also remember wondering why the teachers never punished them but threatened to expel me when I said, 'Next girl that hits me gets cunt-punted.'
146- except when you look at all the harms due to low self-esteem like eating disorders, unhealthy relationships, and suicide, I would argue that OP needs to learn quickly how to not be a dick. If he thinks that a system that's made to make someone feel obliged to fuck you because they feel so horrible about themselves is a good idea, it doesn't matter if he's learning, he's a total douche. I agree there's a double standard but if there was a comment about a woman trying to do the same thing to a man who got hit I would click YDI no slower than I did here. I wouldn't personally hit anyone but I also would argue that if there was ever the time to make a nut shot, this is it.
Yeah, next time tell us that we fell from heaven or some stupid shit like that... Just kidding! Best way to pick up a girl, honestly, just chit chat with her, and then if you both it off really well, get straight to the point (not in an asshole type way, but softly, smoothly and not pushy). That way she can at least respect you being upfront and honest, if you get turned down. Instead you could be patient and get to know her first. Ie. grab her number or give her yours.
I think that the person who wants to be approached, whether they're male or female, should be the one giving the number. That way, the other person feels like the ball is in his/her court. They know the other person is interested and can then respond according to their own feelings. I don't really like giving out my number, since that once resulted in receiving a drunken phone call at 4 a.m. If I do give my number, then I really am interested in getting to know the person better, and if they call, I know they want to get to know me better, and that way, the whole potential "stalker-stalkee" dynamic is avoided.