Love: Today, I was recovering from an operation. After I felt better,...

By mrsfantastic - 12/09/2010 14:02 - United Kingdom

Today, I was recovering from an operation. After I felt better, I checked my phone. There were 35 missed calls and angry text messages from my boyfriend asking why I wasn't at his house to cook his dinner. FML

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By laurenh211 - 17/11/2020 17:02 - United Kingdom

Today, my husband came home from the hospital after having painful surgery, so I decided to make him a nice big breakfast. As I was taking it up to him, I heard a message on the phone. It was from one of his nurses. She was accepting his offer of a date. FML

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By Kiki - 08/03/2013 21:22 - Poland - Myslenice

Today, my boyfriend came over and dropped off my phone, which I'd left at his place the night before. He immediately left in a sulk. As I looked through my texts, I discovered he was only so moody because I hadn't answered any of his calls or messages. I'm dating an idiot. FML

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By Anonymous - 02/10/2010 13:04 - United States

Today, my boyfriend called me over for dinner. When I walked in the door, he asked why I was here; apparently he dialed the wrong girlfriend. FML

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By Anonymous - 16/09/2023 22:00

Today, after weeks of my girlfriend moaning that I never go anywhere, I went out with some friends. An hour in, she started blowing up my phone. When I answered it, she was screaming in rage because I wasn't home to cook dinner. FML

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By that one anon - 07/05/2015 06:27 - United States - San Diego

Today, I called one of my old coworkers to see how she was doing. My boyfriend answered the phone. FML

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By Anonymous - 15/12/2023 17:00 - United States - Uvalde

Today, I was at dinner with my boyfriend. About 30 minutes into dinner and I see my exes come in, one by one. In the end, they were all sitting at the same table. My boyfriend got up and went to the bathroom. He came back and sat down with them. Apparently my boyfriend went through my phone and called all of them. FML

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By Anonymous - 16/11/2010 06:34 - Netherlands

Today, I came home sick. After a while I received a text message. I thought it was a sweet 'how are you baby?' from my boyfriend. It wasn't. He sent: 'Hey, I'm going to work now. Please do not disturb. Thank you!' FML

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Red flags all over the place

By DumpedHisAss - 14/10/2009 15:19 - United States

Today, I got a phone call from my boyfriend, who screamed at me for being a f-ing liar and never taking time for him. He'd called my work and knew I wasn't there as I said I'd be. He was right - I was lying. I'd been driving for the past 10 hours to his family's beach house to surprise him. FML

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By evenmybodyhatesme - 15/05/2016 06:47 - United States - San Jose

Today, after spending a day in the ER and a day in hospital, I was recovering from emergency surgery. My boyfriend left to eat and didn't come back. He texted me 4 hours later that he was drinking with his friends and that he loved his "brown eyed girl". My eyes aren't brown. FML

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Relationship goals

By Anonymous - 12/04/2023 00:00

Today, after my man told me to get the dishes done and clean up the kitchen, he got mad at me because I didn’t answer my phone when our son needed medicine that was downstairs. I didn’t hear it ring because I was throwing out the trash, cleaning out the fridge, and washing the dishes, like I was told to do. FML

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Sunday 12 September 2010 19:06

dump that asshole

MaryFairy 3

Sunday 12 September 2010 19:07

wow... bastard! dump his jerk ass

Comments

Foxy_On_Fire 21

Sunday 12 September 2010 19:28

tell him to order pizza and dump his ass.

MeGustaComer 0

Sunday 12 September 2010 19:33

If he's your (hopefully now ex) boyfriend then wouldn't you let him know about the operation? Dump the guy.

yagurlteeteexoxo 0

Sunday 12 September 2010 19:34

What the hell? Why wasn't he there with you? does he not know that you was doing an operation?

o3livi0us1 0

Sunday 12 September 2010 20:04

Nah, he sounds like the type that would stay home so he can rank up in Call of Duty instead.

chokeabitch 0

Tuesday 14 September 2010 8:23

because it's fake. it makes no sense at all. if it's real the guys a total scumbag, but how does the guy not know if she's in the hospital, theyre supposedly at the point where they're living together/cohabitating regularly

desh_fml 0

Sunday 12 September 2010 19:40

i say buy him a frozen pizza and a bottle of lotion. then dump him.

Tootsiee 0

Sunday 12 September 2010 19:45

idk which is worse that he was mad about you not being in his kitchen or him not knowin you had surgery..?

lucidlucia 0

Sunday 12 September 2010 19:46

OP- do you see a trend? you are in an abusive relationship. if you don't see it, then you're a complete idiot. drop his ass and don't date anyone like him ever again. maybe you should go to a DV class.

hedgehogs 0

Sunday 12 September 2010 19:46

This is the end. Period. You can't stay with this guy. There is NO way.

perdix 29

Sunday 12 September 2010 19:50

Why didn't you pre-cook him meals before you had your boob job?

illmatic2 16

Sunday 12 September 2010 20:25

^ This. Women these days...

demarcusT 0

Sunday 12 September 2010 22:27

WIN WIN WIN WIN WIN

Emrysa 1

Sunday 12 September 2010 20:02

Operation aside, even if you weren't recovering, this is totally psychotic and controlling behavior. I don't care how nice he can be when he's in a good mood. Your boyfriend is abusive. You do not, under any circumstances call someone that many times demanding to know where your dinner is. Even if you promised to make him dinner on this specific night, AND neglected to mention your surgery, a normal reaction would be to call a couple of times to try and get in touch, and leave a message trying to find out what happened. Being angry would be normal, but most people would wait for an explanation. And not... you know, call 35 times like insecure stalkers. You need to dump him, this is only going to get WAY worse once you're stuck in the relationship via kids, marriage, ect. And you'll probably be made to feel like it's your fault all the time, since the abuser usually only acts this way with people he's totally secure he can get away with stepping all over. He'll save his best behavior for anyone he's not around regularly and then act like you're insane because everyone thinks he's such a great guy.

FerrariCake 2

Sunday 12 September 2010 20:48

Thanks for the in-depth analysis, Captain Obvious

Emrysa 1

Sunday 12 September 2010 21:12

OP clearly doesn't realize this, princess. I'm sorry you're so self absorbed and narcissistic, you assumed every comment on here is directed at you . Why don't you go and hang out with Snooki, you clearly have tons in common.