I'm very self-conscious, so when i first started going out with my bf, I wouldn't want him to pick me up because I thought I was too heavy but he would just tell me that the girl is never too heavy, the guy simply isn't strong enough :)
"he would just tell me that the girl is never too heavy, the guy simply isn't strong enough "
This attitude is why fat women keep being able to date people out of their league, while men have to settle.
90- I didn't realize the men had no choice in the matter of who to "settle" for. Also, is there even such a thing as a league? Are people so narrow-minded as to think that two people can't love each other because one may be easier on the eyes than the other?
Omg #2 I died haha. Sucks OP. I never let guys pick me bc I thought I was fat to and then one day I let my ex husband pick me up and was dropped. I was so over weight. Then I left him and got super skinny! Now I let my bf pick me up all the time!
OP can't be too fat- I mean, she has a boyfriend! At least that has to make her feel beautiful. fuck the rest of the world- if your boyfriend loves you for who you are and how you look, you've got it all
I doubt it's because you're overweight. If he picked you up funny (as in not with his legs) then it's not your weight that did that. Anything over 100 lbs could have thrown his back out.
Well if you're thinking that you're over weight why not do something about it? Although the fact your bf threw his back out trying to lift you is embarassing and probably doesn't make you feel very good about yourself, you have no right to complain if you can do something to change it.
Maybe you're just being a teenaged girl, thinking you're fat when you're really not-so in that case STAHP. He could have easily just lifted you the wrong way causing the back malfunction. My mom hurt her back lifting 30 lbs cus she did it improperly.
Or she could really be overweight but is too lazy to do anything about it so she guilts her boyfriend into telling her she is a healthy weight. Either is a very likely possibility nowadays.
I always like going with people I hate. so I can stare at them with an evil glare and think about how I'm going to kick their ass when I'm stronger. It's great motivation.