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He's pretty stupid but at least he had the courage to tell her. But him cheating adds even more to his stupidity
you absoultely fucking deserve it. if you werent happy with her then you should have broken up with her before sleeping with someone else. you know she is going to react negatively and hoping she wont cause shes in public is even worse. hell hath no fury like a woman whose been cheated on. maybe you learned your fucking lesson. DONT CHEAT DICK!
just because you are seeing someone doesn't man you're having sexual relations with them. OP never said he slept with the other woman, so dont jump to conclusions. I'm not trying to defend OP in any way but I do agree with you 100%.
Sure, she shouldn't have assaulted you, but you totally deserve it for both cheating on her and for not taking her to a private place. It was incredibly selfish of you to not even give her a place where she can relax, be comfortable and break down without others watching.
Clearly if OP felt he needed to do this in public maybe he knew she isn't stable. As much as it hurts hearing someone you care about is interested in someone else I wouldn't beat the shit out of them. You have no idea how long they've been together, what if this relationship wasn't working out and he found his "soulmate" it's funny how people see things in black and white when they aren't involved.
322- That may be true, but OP should have broken it off as soon as he knew he wanted to be seeing the other girl, rather than juggle them both. I do agree though. OPs girlfriend isn't in the right either, and it sucks that she can get away with this. It is very sexist that OP's girlfriend can do this, yet if it were the other way around OP would be arrested because "You can't hit girls!" Honestly, you shouldn't hit anyone no matter what, and if you do, the punishment should be the same regardless of gender. To me, OP is a dumbass, but his girlfriend should have handled it better.
Recently as in the weekend before last a man was killed outside a bar. Him and another guy got into a fist fight one punch the wrong way and he was dead. Both lives are ruined over stupidity violence is wrong. Also seeing someone could be talking over coffee he "saw" her yeah? I just think everyone shouldn't be so quick to judge.
Plot Twist: It wasn't your ex-girlfriend who punched you out.
Let's say the girlfriend is abusive to him and he was manipulated into staying with her, it still does not give him a right to cheat. If she was abusing him then he should have left her or sought help. I understand it is often hard for men to be considered a victim, because women are statistically the ones reported. However, I am not sure about the sins of the girlfriend, other than beating the crap out of him when he cheated on her. While this is not right, Op did not need to cheat on her and humiliate her like that in public. If he was afraid for his life, he should have packed up, left a note, and gone on with his life.
Violence is certainly not the answer, but I don't see any discrimination. Self defense is a basic, unalienable right in my book, despite if the attacker is man or woman. If someone is causing physical pain, you have the basic right to defend yourself from further pain. But besides that, never throw the first punch. Violence isn't right.
Got what you deserved! I would've been sitting there watching, with a bag of popcorn!
@106: Yes, yes it is. Cheaters get what they deserve eventually, one way or another. Guy or girl, a punch in the face is a good start. If you don't want a concussion, easy: don't cheat. After all, it's easier to keep it in your pants than it is to hold a punch when the person you trusted tells you they've been cheating on you.
I do not think anyone has the right to beat someone for cheating. Yes, it hurts. Yes, they are scum for cheating. But there has to be some level of responsibility. It is against the law for a reason. Just because someone hurts you does not mean you get to hurt them physically. However, legal, creative revenge is okay. Telling the girl he is seeing that he is a cheater is one way.
So you're not only a cheater, but a pussy as well. You deserved that broken nose and concussion, douchebag.
We get it 116 you do not have to keep posting the same thing over and over to get your point across. No it wouldn't be ok for a guy to hit a girl nor is it ok for a girl to hit a guy but being cheated on is a very emotional thing and maybe just maybe she wasn't thinking straight not condoning this behavior but sometimes we act irrationally when we are under a lot of stress.
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That's horrible. You may have cheated but she had no right to physically assault you. It may hurt but you don't physically lash out. I hope you're ok OP and you've learned a tough lesson.
I agree with you. If a girl had cheated on a guy, and he gave her a concussion, would that be okay? Op is an asshole and an idiot, but the girl should not have physically assaulted him. Telling everyone and humiliating him would be acceptable. Sending him to the hospital is not.
10, I don't condone physical assaults but maybe if you thought about how his now-ex-girlfriend felt at that moment, she couldn't help herself. Imagine yourself in her shoes. You realize he did this in public so you would remain calm, or so he thought. You're now just a boiling pot of water waiting to explode. He says one comment or tries to hug/touch you and that's all it takes for you to give him a good punch to his nose, then head. Most likely, you wouldn't want to be touched by him. You stated that he didn't deserve to be punched because he only cheated on her, not hit her. How do we know this? What if OP cheated on her multiple times and she kept taking him back? She probably felt stupid and extremely angry, rightfully so.
Look, unless he's physically/verbally/sexually assaulted her, she has no right to raise her hand to him. Same if it were the other way around. She can, however, shout and scream and make a massive scene. But despite whether or not she had self-control, she has no right to hit him in this situation.
I'm with 37 on this one. Somehow it's alright for a girl to hit her cheating boyfriend, but if any guy would hit his girlfriend for cheating on him he'd forever be a wife beater. I am not saying its ok for men to hit women at all, guys that do that aren't truly men anyway, but god damn, it's not fair for her to hit him either. Somehow you guys think it's perfectly fine that she broke his nose, but what if he fought back and broke her nose as well? That shit I will never understand. Girls cheat just as much as us, but we don't bash them in the fucking face and get praised for it.
Saying that she couldn't help herself really isn't an excuse. You can't just beat up on someone and then say you couldn't help yourself. That's called anger management problems. I agree that cheating is a horrible low-life thing, but giving a concussion? A broken nose, a little bit extreme. But a concussion? Also, if it were the guy beating the girl for cheating on him, the comments would be much different. Physical assault on any side is unacceptable.
I gotta say, he deserved it simply for the fact that he took out in public to tell her this. In private, as it should have been, then no hitting is not excused but in this case it's understandable. He not only betrayed her and broke her heart, he totally humiliated her in public on top of it. I probably would have done the same.
I hope all of you saying he deserved it are the same ones to jump up and say "she deserved it" if the situation was reversed. I personally don't think any situation like that calls for violence; yes he was a bag of shit coward, but that doesn't deserve a concussion. My ex cheated on me while we were living together w/ a guy in the same building. Now, how many of you would have thought that it would've been appropriate for me to break her nose and give her concussion when she finally admitted it?
Everyone needs to quit complaining. There are double standards about everything. People are just being pissy because it's in the girls favor this time. Should she have hit him? Maybe not. I personally think he deserved it because he took her to a place where he thought she wouldn't make a scene. I'm glad she made a spectacle of it. Cowards are the type of people I have no respect for.
If it was the other way around, if say she deserved it. I don't care if you're a woman or a man, if you're going to be a cheating worthless piece if trash, then you deserve to get taken out like one. Of course, I can think of far better ways than just a broken nose.