Nah, at this point therapy is mostly done for. If this is his wife’s attitude, she needs to be an ex. She has no respect for him, thinks little of him, and wanted permission to see and sleep with other men, but keep her husband around as a fall back, or economic stability, or something else. The level of disrespect and borderline contempt she has for her husband means that if he has any self respect, he should give her the boot. If she really thinks “my husband is such a poor catch that no one would want him,” barring a major change of heart on the wife’s part, he needs to go, and live his life. Note: I’d give the same advice for a woman whose husband expects/requests permission to have an “open” relationship but won’t afford his wife the same courtesy.

Sounds like a good reason to not be married to the broad anymore given she can't take her own medicine.