By bigdawg702 - 26/09/2009 05:34 - United States
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After 9 months, starting to have kids ? ... Not all girls are looking forward to that you know
Meh, it all depends on the people in the relationship after all. After dating my current girlfriend for 2 months (though we've been close friends for almost 9 years) she said that if I proposed to her she'd probably say yes-- and that didn't bother or scare me at all. So, really I think it all depends on people and circumstance.
#2 Yeah. ^^; Especially since apparently he never even asked her how she felt about such things or if she had such plans for her future. He just informed her that he was ready to start the breeding, as in, she'd better get on with it. I understand her reaction. Anyone with a brain would do the same, or laugh and ask if he's joking. A couple = 2 people and their decisions taken together, not one guy and his incubating machine.
Maybe she's not ready? I mean it's only been 9 months since you started dating.
On your first date, did you rub her belly and say, "Soon, this will be plump with my seed"?
Ok...I wouldn't either if you said that to me after only 9 months O_o. Relax, the average lasting time for romantic love is only about 2 years. I say that someone should always wait more than 2 years to make sure that they're ready to CONSIDER those decisions. Then again, I'm 19. What do I know?
you sir are a moron. nine month is not enough time to know some one that well.
I'd guess it was probably the kids thing that scared her off more than marriage. My husband and I started talking about getting married after about 9 months of dating, but we didn't actually get engaged for a while after that. if your gf is young (and I"m talking in her mid 20s or below, maybe even up to late 20s), thinking about having kids right now is probably not her idea of a good time. some girls that age are really ready to have kids, most of us are not. however, I don't know her, so maybe it was the way you told her, or maybe she's not ready to be married yet either. take it one step at a time, and use good communication, if she seemed skittish when you mentioned marriage, don't move on to the kids!
you shoulda held onto her waist and screamed "HAVE MY BABBIES" and NOT pulled out!