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even if she is, 9 months is a bit early in the relationship to be saying you're ready for marriage and a family.

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Yeah, I mean Jesus, nine months? I wouldn't even start thinking about marriage until at least like 4 years, and definitely not propose till after you're living together. (Which it seems you're not)

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Meh, it all depends on the people in the relationship after all. After dating my current girlfriend for 2 months (though we've been close friends for almost 9 years) she said that if I proposed to her she'd probably say yes-- and that didn't bother or scare me at all. So, really I think it all depends on people and circumstance.

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#2 Yeah. ^^; Especially since apparently he never even asked her how she felt about such things or if she had such plans for her future. He just informed her that he was ready to start the breeding, as in, she'd better get on with it. I understand her reaction. Anyone with a brain would do the same, or laugh and ask if he's joking. A couple = 2 people and their decisions taken together, not one guy and his incubating machine.

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He probably was trying to show her he was committed to the relationship but it didn't work out in his best interest.

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I got engaged to my boyfriend after 6 months, but I've known him for years. We don't live together, but regardless we love each other.

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And even if she were ready, you didn't have the balls to propose. Instead of making it about your love for her you made it about your own selfish needs. Not very attractive. YDI

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Ok...I wouldn't either if you said that to me after only 9 months O_o. Relax, the average lasting time for romantic love is only about 2 years. I say that someone should always wait more than 2 years to make sure that they're ready to CONSIDER those decisions. Then again, I'm 19. What do I know?

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I'm 23 and even two years of relationship wouldn't be enough for me to consider marriage or kids O.o Also, there is enough time to ruin your life later - why so early? to the OP: You just dumped yourself. Congratulations...

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I'd guess it was probably the kids thing that scared her off more than marriage. My husband and I started talking about getting married after about 9 months of dating, but we didn't actually get engaged for a while after that. if your gf is young (and I"m talking in her mid 20s or below, maybe even up to late 20s), thinking about having kids right now is probably not her idea of a good time. some girls that age are really ready to have kids, most of us are not. however, I don't know her, so

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By marcranger - / Friday 6 December 2013 02:30 / United States
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