By Anonymous - 29/11/2014 16:28 - United States - Portland
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If he cares more about looks than personality, he isn't worth it, OP. Find someone who will find you beautiful no matter what.
@25 I think he means he's ok with anyone unless their weight causes health risks. It's not just fat people who have health problems. Skinny people can be unhealthy as well because of poor eating habits or eating disorders. Not being overweight doesn't automatically make you healthy.
Attraction is an important part of a relationship. I know plenty of girls that seem perfect for me when I think about it logically, who were also very attractive, but when I went on dates with them it just fell flat. Then there's other girls that maybe weren't as attractive, but for some reason I'm drawn to them more so than I was to the really hot girl I dated last week who shared more interests with me. Attraction is hard to quantify, and it's more than just "good" looks and "good" personality. It's compatibility. We don't get to choose who we like. We don't get to choose who we are attracted to. Don't blame the guy for something beyond his control. But in all seriousness, for OP, FYL. That sucks. Let go and move on. You'll find someone.
Well Santa atleast knows he's on the naughty list now. Maybe he'll bring him an attractive naughty girl.
If it makes you feel better that was smooth as hell, good job OP.