so you're saying that it's okay to have health risks and a higher risk of diabetes and everything that goes along with being overweight? I understand that it's beautiful, my wife used to be overweight, but she lost all that weight due to the potential health risks and now that she's lost the weight, she feels like the top of the world.

I didn't say it was okay to have bad health risks, but ppl shouldn't just assume the OP is lazy and eats their feelings . It could be a side effect of a medical condition, or genetic, or anything . I'm against stereotyping and it's sad that many ppl do thay .

Quite frankly, they aren't stereotypes when they are true, not to say that it goes for everybody, but its more common than not. My dad has worked in the health industry since before I was born, I grew up understanding that it's not healthy to be overweight and I was overweight for a good chunk of my life from my moms side, and I lost all the weight. Yeah, it could be a medical condition, but those can be controlled, and can still lose weight with the condition. You can lose weight even if it comes from genetics. She might have had something happen in her life that has made her eat her feelings to a certain degree. What gets me is that OP is sounding "unsatisfied" per se, with their body, and if their unsatisfied, than they should fix it the healthy way. No matter what the cause of OP's weight is, there really isn't a way of saying that it's entirely healthy to be overweight, I experienced it first hand and watching my wife. The people shouldn't assume, thats true, but given that it's written in words, a reader can put it in any context they want and automatically assume causes, and there really isn't a way of getting around that unless OP had written an explanation.

It is scary to think some people find obesity beautiful.

true. I find it's only okay, if they're willing to accept their body, but how many obese people are actually willing to accept their body? deep inside they aren't.