Love: Today, I messaged the guy I've been seeing for 4 months, referring...

By althornton2462 - 12/10/2015 00:27 - United States - Hudson

Today, I messaged the guy I've been seeing for 4 months, referring to him as my boyfriend. His response? "I didn't realize you had a boyfriend." FML

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By xrebeccalou - 25/12/2010 04:59 - United States

Today, I went to my long-distance boyfriend's party. His best friend was talking to me and trying to make conversation, he asked, "So, are you two official?" I responded with a definite yes, but was cut off mid-word by my boyfriend, who quickly said, "No, not really." Sorry, I wasn't aware, darling. FML

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By Anonymous - 05/04/2009 09:43 - Canada

Today, my boyfriend of 3 months and I were in the middle of a heavy make-out session when his cell rang. Normally, he'd ignore it. This time however he pushed me off of him and said "Shit! It's probably my girlfriend!" I thought I was his girlfriend. FML

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khorstmye 15

Monday 12 October 2015 17:09

Seems understandable if you have not ever talked about it.

kibster9 20

Monday 12 October 2015 17:29

You need to talk things over with him. If you haven't discussed being boyfriend and girlfriend, then I understand.

Comments

yoursucklives 36

Monday 12 October 2015 17:08

ouch. seems like you're not on the same page relationshipwise.

NeatNit 32

Tuesday 13 October 2015 7:52

What I wanna know is, how could she refer to him as her boyfriend in a message to him, in a way that could be interpreted as someone else being her boyfriend? I just can't construct such a message in my head.

lolbash 18

Tuesday 13 October 2015 13:07

(Opens Imessage) Him: Hey whats up Her: oh nothing, just talking to the best boyfriend ever on imessage riight now Him: oh, didnt know you have a bf Her: (silently screaming)

T1A2Z3 34

Wednesday 14 October 2015 15:35

So how is my amazing boyfriend?

born_hustla 26

Monday 12 October 2015 17:09

If it was a clear cf and and he seriously ignored it, then you should seriously reconsider!

johnny29 14

Monday 12 October 2015 17:09

maybe he was just joking. i can't belive he could be so oblivious. you should discuss the status of your relationship though

zboot 8

Tuesday 13 October 2015 3:43

I'd be oblivious too if I didn't have a girlfriend. "Seeing" someone doesn't make you boyfriend and girlfriend unless you're 10 years old. Labeling a relationship on your own without discussing it with the other person seems like a big warning sign. Unless she was joking, I don't foresee this going well.

khorstmye 15

Monday 12 October 2015 17:09

Seems understandable if you have not ever talked about it.

laxtax 19

Monday 12 October 2015 17:14

He may think you guys were just good friends, seems like something that can be sorted out by sitting down and talking to him

08zw 19

Monday 12 October 2015 17:16

As you referred to him as "the guy I've been seeing for four months," you sound a bit unsure as well. It seems that there could be some ambiguity in your relationship. Perhaps he wants to be your boyfriend but he's been afraid to bring it up with you.

klutz44 28

Monday 12 October 2015 19:04

If she referred to him as her boyfriend, the FML would have been really confusing. It was worded well.

Lalala579121 27

Monday 12 October 2015 22:02

I'm pretty sure the entire point of the FML is that there's ambiguity in their relationship.

bad_boyfriend 10

Monday 12 October 2015 17:18

Have you ever discussed it. Whenever I starts seeing someone, it is very clear when we become a couple. Why would you just assume a couple months hanging out makes him your boyfriend?