By hannamacintosh - 28/06/2016 17:30 - Canada - Toronto
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I don't really blame you. A dog's love is irrevocable and unconditional. It will love you for life. So sad that almost no humans like that exist.
A human like that doesnt exist because of certain boundries.. Such as some people spank their dogs to teach them not to do something, If another human does something you dont want to, You definitely cannot hit them.. A dog will still love you, And a human will press charges.
Oh please, you all are so easy to brush off love. Your problem is you have hit a low. Talk to the guy, see what he thinks. You where attracted to him once. Try to work it out. Put some effort into it. Buy a new dress, get your hair done. Show him you care for him. He will respond and you will have a fresh start.
Who is this "you all" you speak of, you really shouldn't generalize. It's not that "we're" easy to brush off love, it's that we understand when it isn't love anymore, and when the situation is hopeless, it's simply hopeless. Relationships take work, but when you look at your partner and really don't like them or being around them, it can be a sign to move on. You really learn and get to know a person over the course of a relationship, liking them at one point really doesn't mean much because at that point you didn't know them nearly as well. If you find yourself not enjoying being with them anymore, it's often a sign you found something about them or their personality which you do not like, is not compatible, and it simply changes your view of them. Trying to force yourself to like someone when you obviously don't can lead to resentment and anger, just exacerbating problems. And stringing people along only leads to heart break and wastes everyone's time when they could be either single and happy, or finding someone that likes them for who they are.