By Anonymous - 10/03/2015 23:15 - United States - Angleton
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Look likes she ones step a head of you. I'm sure you didn't mean to rub her the wrong way, but it's a touchy subject
You should *jokingly* send her an article on how to handle a break up, just to see where she takes it.
YDI, when someone does something like that it's special and personal. You insulted her.
I think the girlfriend has a point. If someone sent that article to me I'd try not to be too offended since they're not saying "you give shit head", maybe you're just too repetitive or something similar. Good sex is fulfilled sex. But i'd likely also respond with an article about how to give better lick outs because there's always room for improvement. If they talk this out and take it as a learning experience theyll be fine.
I feel like if you and your girlfriend are at a point where you're having sex, you should know her better and know that she would be upset by this. You both need to talk to each other.
If it doesn't mean anything then usually those relationships fall apart. My sister had a fast relationship like that and she's married to the man now and has a kid. Sometimes that's how relationships go. While I will say that there's a big hook up culture right now, when you find the one you want to be with, sex with them is totally different than with anyone else.
A month ?! It's the 3 hour rule. Really though, sadly the 3 date rule is all so true around where I live . It's a sad that a lot of people I know sleep around with people they just meet like having a casual drink. Op if you are going to tell a women she gives horrible head instead of doing it in a sensitive way, then you will be getting very little from her. Oh and you may want to talk to her about how to blow her world , it'll do you worlds of good .
Why is it sad, #44? There's nothing inherently wrong with having casual sex, as long as both partners consent wholeheartedly and take care to avoid STIs. Not everything has to be serious and involve romantic feelings, sometimes it's fun to be spontaneous and enjoy being intimate with someone you don't know that well.
So you're fine with sending her the link but not receiving one back? Why send it if you don't like how it feels either?