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By Justme - / Wednesday 5 June 2013 05:02 / United States
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Leave his stuff outside for when he gets back/ yard sale and change the locks. Cheating sucks. If you are not happy just leave, but don't stay with the jerk, makes you just as bad.

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Leave his stuff outside for when he gets back/ yard sale and change the locks. Cheating sucks. If you are not happy just leave, but don't stay with the jerk, makes you just as bad.

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I stopped reading when you said the house belongs to both of them, but his stuff only belongs to him. Not sure about where you're from, but where I live, if you get married, your spouse owns everything you do. As such, it wouldn't be a crime for her to break her own things. Anyways, pricks like him get what they deserve.

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Even in a community property state, anything a person had before the marriage is still their own. Only things acquired during the marriage are jointly owned.

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I think the best case scenario for OP would be to hire a really good lawyer and get a divorce. The courts don't usually look favorably upon cheating scumbags. My guess is that he wouldn't get half of everything, and even if he did, there's always alimony.

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#63 I would like to agree but I know the courts have not been kind to my aunt in her ugly divorce. He cheated on her and has, on multiple occasions, not taken her kid home when he was supposed to, filed false information, and at one point he slapped her hard enough it left a bruise for days. When the police arrived they were both arrested (she shoved him after being hit). After 9 months she finally divorced and was allowed to keep the house and kid but had to give up most of her belongings (incl

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There's, no solid proof of cheating. If he's going out of town it may be a positive impact to an executive. Not likely, but that's what I took from that.

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Because when I go out of towns to see my boss, I send them flowers and a card saying, "Can't wait to see you." How about no?

Simply leave a note on the door with a phone number to the divorce attorney. You should not have to see him ever again, unless it's in court.

Personally deliver the flowers to her yourself, then lay the smack down on both if them! Sorry OP, cheating is douchebag status at the highest level.

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I was gonna say, at least find out if the floozy knows he's married. I was that "other woman" once, and it's really crappy. I had absolutely no idea.

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No, just deliver the flowers to her, explain how you two are married, and the floozy will be mad too! Both of you give him the smack down!!

Send him a bouquet of flowers with a letter from your attorney attached to it saying, "I can't wait to divorce you."

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I agree with 11. I slept with a guy after dating him for a while, the next day I get a message on facebook calling me a whore for sleeping with her boyfriend. Didn't have a clue this girl existed. If this girl does know then that's a different story and you can plan your revenge accordingly.

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Same here. I found out the guy I was seeing was already taken when I got the longest text I've ever seen, from an unknown number. She called me a slut faced whore for trying to steal her boyfriend and ruin their relationship, among many other things. It was horrible. So don't go too hard on the "other woman" because it's the man who decided to cheat and the other woman probably has no clue. Unless you know for a fact that she does know and she is trying to steal him.

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