By Jessica S. - 06/09/2012 11:15 - United States - Louisville

Today, I found out that the mysterious and creepy weirdo guy that continuously sends me messages on Facebook is my manager at my new job. FML
I agree, your life sucks 25 448
You deserved it 2 020

Same thing different taste

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It would be silly to quit. It's Kentucky - your chances are very high that anyone you work with will be creepy and weird.

Hey if you play your cards right you could have a nice raise pretty soon!


OP has to choose between being unemployed and broke or making money and being harassed... Choose wisely

Definitely don't have to make that choice. She can make money and not be harassed. If it continues to happen file a complaint with HR.

Unless OP works at a small business. If you work in a small restaurant or a family owned business you might not have that option.

Yes, you do. Harassment is harassment. If HR doesn't do anything, the law will.

You have to PROVE that he is sending the messages and hiring a lawyer costs thousands or dollars. You can't just go file a police report and hope they will do something because they won't.

Is it just me or does anyone else notice that the majority of people on FML seems to offer the easiest way out of the situation?

24 - Seeing as he's sending electronic messages, there will be an electronic footprint left behind. The proof is rather easy. As for lawyers, they're not necessary. Why does everyone seem to think you always need a lawyer?

35 is right. If she were to file criminal harassment charges, the city or state would provide a prosecution lawyer.

I would mention in passing that youre gay. No more creeper, keep the job.

BeforeItWasCool 12

It's simple. Block him on Facebook and casually mention that you've deactivated your account in conversation with him so he's not offended. He never has to find out you blocked him. It's really just common sense.

That's the employee and boss relationship they all want.

Aug1508 9

I hope OP wasn't completely rude to the boss cause he will be mean to OP. or I hope the creepy boss doesn't start hitting on Op. I think this might be awkward for both of them.

Work almost always sucks. And 9 times out of 10 your boss is an asshole.

Just delete or block him. I'm guessing you need your job OP, so tell him you're not on the website anymore and leave it at that.

actually a lot of bosses don't suck and work doesn't always either. I'd say wait a few weeks to see if he sends them again. he might stop now you work with him, if not contact his boss!

Maybe he thinks you're quality pen pal material hhahaa Na you're screwed, shut it down

Leave fast OP, this is starting to sound like one of those you die in the end cus of creepy people you know scenarios.

I've never heard of that scenario before.

Yeah. Force him to eat canned ham. That'll show him!

Sometimes I cover myself in spam then put bread on top of the spam and pretend I'm a sandwich. Sometimes for a little twist I add mayo too!!

#40: I don't know about you, but that seems kind of epic.

I may have to try that but instead I'll use Cesar salad dressing cuz being Cesar is way better then Italian!!

It would be silly to quit. It's Kentucky - your chances are very high that anyone you work with will be creepy and weird.

Greendaycheese 12

As long as he hasn't done anything, right? Maybe if it bothers you so much, talk to him about not contacting you on Facebook anymore?..

He has been creeping you this whole time, and now he has you working for him. Wow, I would quit ASAP, sounds to me as he has something planned and I would run. I'd rather be broke and washing my cloth with a bar of soap, Then work for that creeper.

*than.Remember,then and than are totally different.

I agree with you but it's probably a coincidence, I mean someone higher up than him could have hired her unaware of the connection between the two. you're probably right but I thought I'd say it anyway!

54- thank you for the lesson, I am still new to the English language. If you ever want to learn another language let me know, maybe you will see how hard it is to remember all the rules :)