By newdad - United States
Today, I found out that I'm a dad. My ex from 8 years ago contacted me through facebook. I'm happy I have a kid, but apparently she only contacted me because she wants me to start paying child support, now her boyfriend who provided for them left. FML
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  Anaxes  |  5

8 years ago?

1. It's probably a scam. DNA test or it didn't happen.
2. If she actually takes it to court, the fact she couldn't be fucked asking for 8 years might give you the upper hand.
3. It sounds like she's just combing through the past looking for some money, so she's probably poor. Poor people can't afford decent lawyers. (From memory a lawyer is only provided for free in a criminal case).

  Tasanasanta  |  0

Well even though the b*tch of an ex blew you off for 8 years, you might wanna pay the child support. If you really care about the welfare of the child, and sueing her for custody or visitation rights might kinda f up the kid. Try to talk things through maybe? But if she did that then I'm guessing thats a dead end situation. Sorry man, FYL.

  blownfuse  |  0

would you really care for the welfare of a child you didn't know you had the day before and that child was old enough to tell you where to go and how to get there?!?!

if the child is 8 and you have only seen picture of the kid (possibly have not even seen pictures) then even if it was your kid I'd fight it and just say that this is bullshit as you never once seen this kid ect. fyl

  Mirorbo  |  26

What do you mean? So some lady can claim some completely random stranger is the father and the courts will force him to pay child support for a kid that isn't his?

  laxbrosive  |  4

it really depends on the mother though. if she is scraping money together to buy groceries for her kid then I feel like asking for support is justified. but, if she's trying to get extra money for like a vacation or luxuries then she's a POS.

  marvin_fml  |  0

Hey dumbass, Try looking at HER picture before you call him a retard.

Having an ex contact you years later to tell you that you have a kid you didn't know about, is something a woman will never experience, and will never fully understand.