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Callyn
| 47
DNA test. That's a long time to hide this shit from you, it's super suspicious. If it is your kid, get some form of custody because the ex is obviously unstable.
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mfranks19891989
| 10
I’m sure you want to do the right thing if that’s your kid. But 2 years is a long time to not tell someone they have a kid. They are either lying or thought it was the guy(s) after dating you.
Get a DNA test. If the kid is yours you shouldn’t be responsible for the 2 years of child support, that’s on her. But you are responsible for future child support payments.
Get a DNA test. If the kid is yours you shouldn’t be responsible for the 2 years of child support, that’s on her. But you are responsible for future child support payments.
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mekiswrite
| 19
Definitely get a DNA test, but don't rely on how long she waited. There is such thing as retroactive child support, which can be made payable.
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daengh
| 15
If she put OP's name on the birth certificate as the father he might already be stuck for child support if the birth state has a no-challenge presumption of truth. There's been at least one case in the U.S. where a man provably not the birth father was held liable for child support until the kid turns 18.
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Brightside86
| 21
I worry about this almost daily for 9 months after breaking up with a girl.
Yikes to think that some might keep it secrete even after birth.
Yikes to think that some might keep it secrete even after birth.
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uniformed
| 13
I'd look into a "fixer" might be cheaper and way more satisfying than child support payments.
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Razell
| 13
Yup, DNA test, and if it's not yours, counter-sue her for fraud and extortion.
If it is yours, sue for full custody.
If it is yours, sue for full custody.
Get a DNA test. If the kid is yours you shouldn’t be responsible for the 2 years of child support, that’s on her. But you are responsible for future child support payments.