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Get out of that. Now.
*hypocritical. And yes.
Leave. Don't try to be with her. She doesn't feel the same way as you, then it won't work
Get out of this relationship now. I don't care if she's hot enough to do online stripshows, she's obviously not the one for you.
He hasn't been *in* that. :P But, yeah, I agree. I don't normally jump on the dump wagon, but this seems pretty clear-cut.
#29 Most likely he proposed during the 3 years they were together and only recently found out what she was doing.
I agree. Take the hint. Bounce.
He obviously loves her, seeing how he proposed to her twice. I would hope he would try to talk to her before he dumps her.
with actions and attitudes like this, she probably won't make a good partner. leave before it's too late.
"But it's OK because I only did that for money. To support us!"
only okay when you're cooking meth.
Yeah... You need to get out of that immediately
seriously she's doing online strip shows! her own bf hasnt seen her naked ,but yet half the guys on the Internet have op has more then enough reason to leave her.
Why are you dating someone who does online strip shows?
He might just be in love with a stripper! But seriously people don't openly disclose that while attracting a mate, wgich in this case was op.
It's not the fact that she's a stripper, because if both parties are comfortable with it there's nothing wrong with it. It's not bad that she wants to wait for marriage for sex, either. (although I personally could not, and believe it's a good idea to have sex before marriage, but to each their own.) But to think he shouldn't ********** is a reg flag, coupled with stripping for men who are OBVIOUSLY going to jerk off to her striptease, is what did it for me. OP, you're in an unhealthy relationship and you should get out ASAP.
Smokecloud made all the points I wanted to. Waiting for marriage isn't bad, being a stripper isn't bad, its your body and honestly showing it off for money when so many people show theirs off for notes on a post for free? There are worse things. Telling him he can't ********** is the deal breaker here for me. Let op jerk himself all he wants, he can touch his own body, it does belong to him after all.
#5 I'm guess he didn't even know until just recently.
#46 Smokecloud totally nailed it ! That's it exactly. best of luck to you, op !
well #5 it said he FOUND OUT that she is doing that. Why do you assume he knew this and was okay with this?
So you can't jack off...but she can be the basis of strangers jacking off...alrighty then.
You have to wonder if she'd be okay with him jacking off to her stripshow then.
Be glad she said no to your proposal and dump her.
OP, that's not a healthy relationship. The power imbalance isn't okay and the double standards she has aren't either. That's the kind of relationship you need to either get out of or talk through in couples therapy, depending on how much you both want it to work out. And, from the looks of her rejections, the former might be the preference. I'd try to work it out first though, unless there are worse things being omitted from us or she has cheated on you. Then, just get out whilst you can.
This is obviously not going to work out
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Get out of that. Now.
She's probably sleeping with other men if she has that kind of double standard.