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"I got so wasted" Even though it's a party, you could have been a little bit more responsible.
the whole point of a batchelorette party/batchelor party is to let your hair down and have a little fun. If she spent the whole night being responsible then the whole thing would have been a waste of time. Just because you don't know how to have fun doesn't mean you need to be everyone else's buzz kill.
65-What the hell? OP makes a grammar mistake, so she deserves all of this? What kind of logic is that? YDI should be used for something that's relevant to the FML instead of a grammatical error. OP, I can't really relate because in my religion, drinking is not allowed. But I'm sure it must have made things REALLY awkward after...good look sorting that out. FYL
That's okay! What happens at a bachelor(ette) party, stays at the bachelor(ette) party. It would be completely evil for your friends to ever mention it to anyone.
so, by your logic, Lacey, finding someone else attractive and checking them out should be considered cheating, too? like i said before, it isn't as if she screwed him or anything, she just instructed him on how to improve his methods. having a stripper at your party is not cheating. you'll be hard-pressed to find anyone besides you who thinks so. members of the clergy don't count.
except in most cases...about 90 to 99.9% of the time, you don't have sex with the stripper. someone hired for sex is called a prostitute, whore, hooker, etc. A stripper, on the other hand, does exactly that. strips. takes their clothes off. dances around. things like that. so, yes, you ARE wrong.
other people took care of most of this, ie the sex thing, but i couldn't help but point this out: "You might not believe that to be true but it does not mean that i am wrong" If you had had a smaller vocabulary, you could have written the same sentance with the same meaning like this: You might think i'm wrong, but it does not mean that i am wrong Yes - by not believing you are right, Xander inherently believes that you are wrong.
Lacey: we're not stupid, we just think differently than you do. The entire point of a bachelor/ bachelorette party is that it's (supposedly) the LAST time you do something crazy like hiring a stripper. It's not like OP was planning on doing this weekly for the rest of the marriage, it's just the last opportunity for her to act "single." At this point, it's almost traditional. ;D
I stopped reading Lacey comment after she references strippers as people who are paid to have sex. Sorry girly, you're mistaken. The word you're looking for is prostitute. There is absolutely nothing wrong with bachelor/bachelorette parties unless the future bride or groom-to-be kisses or engages in sexual activity with someone other than their significant other. There are "classy" bachorette parties and I would know because two of my best friends have had theirs and both were in Vegas. We gambled, got wasted and flirted with every thing with a penis. we even hired a secret stripper for one of my friends who is super shy and reserved. She still remembers it as one of the best days of her life. you don't have to sacrifice your morals at a bachelorette party. if you are marrying, it is a given that you're mature enough to understand what each of you considers "cheating". And yes, definition of cheating does differ from person to person. Coming from someone who's been there, bacherlotte parties are fun and are one last chance to really "let loose" and close the chapter of an unmarried life before you open a new chapter of one of eternal commitment. Many people may not see it this but my married friends do. Oh and one last shocker, guess what? they are both happily married.
My girlfriend is a stripper, and she gets me lapdances all the time. Sometimes we get lapdances together from the same girl, or I watch her get one from another girl. It's all in great fun and it's awesome to do that kinda shit together. In no way is it cheating. If anything, the lapdances are just a stepping stone to one fantastic night alone with her.
Haha, that's not so bad. It's not like you had sex with the guy. Your future husband will probably laugh about it too.
It's not "There's pictures," as this in full form is, "There is pictures." It should be, "There're," or, "There are pictures."
look, I'm not saying YDI for being drunk, I'm saying YDI for not anticipating that you'd do something like that at your bachelorette party. and come one, it's not that bad. it's not like you fucked the guy. the photos are just something you'll look back on one day and laugh hysterically at.