A lil weird you're just meeting his extended family and you're his fiancé

Not really that weird. She probably already met the parents, maybe siblings and grandparents but no reason to really meet cousins, aunts, uncles, etc. until the opportunity comes around.

Somebody come get her she is dancing like a stripper

Ahhhh shut your face. Have you considered the wedding was boring as fuck?

Yes, because that is always a great reason to make an ass of yourself and potentially ruin someone else's special day. Not selfish at all...

Weddings generally are boring as fuck, so either decline or suck it up and behave approximately.

So when you meet your partner's parents, you don't want to have a good time?

#14 There is a difference between "having a good time" and getting so shit faced that you act like a complete idiot in front of your fiancé's relatives at their wedding.

#14: When I meet my future in laws, I will have a good time and not get shitfaced. There is no excuse to get that drunk.

Pretty sure #14 was just joking

I was joking, but I came off as jerkish and rude. I meant that she said "I'm all for having a good time, but not when meeting my partner's family" which I took into a literal sense in "I don't want to have fun in front of my partner's family" instead of "I don't want to get drunk in front of my partner's family." Either way, I made a stupid joke and I accept the thumbs down.

But the children were horrified! (unless they also liked it)

Haha