By Anonymous - 16/4/2020 20:00

Stuck in a rut

  Today, I realised my wife has been slowly phasing out most elements of our previously active and inventive sex life. These days, it's missionary once a month or she tells me to whack one off by myself in the bathroom. When did we get so boring? FML
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By  Vesi  |  24

Yeah those 2 words are just a not-funny euphemism for rape. DON'T ever do this to ANYONE, ever.

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  Vesi  |  24

Yeah those 2 words are just a not-funny euphemism for rape. DON'T ever do this to ANYONE, ever.

By  Vesi  |  24

OP, please seek out a marriage therapist. There may be much more going on then just phasing things out. She could have a medical condition she is not aware of that kills the libido. Please seek out professional help NOT from a site like this.

By  Aj Castelletto  |  11

all these people saying thats what happens when you get married have clearly never been involved in a good marriage. marriage doesnt kill the sex drive, people do. talk to your wife instead of seeking consolation on an internet website. plenty of people are married and have tons of fun sexually throughout years of the marriage. talk it out and fix the problem rather than bitching

By  BurnInDemonFire  |  30

When you stopped communicating, and decided that sex was more about scratching an itch than it was about the pleasure. If she's limiting what happens in the bedroom, it sounds like you were making it about you, and minimizing her pleasure, so she's getting back at you. Sit down, away from the bedroom, and discuss it like the adults you're supposed to be. And don't forget, kids and jobs may also be a factor in this.