Ace of Spades
By Simon Edhouse - 13/09/2021 09:00 - New Zealand - Auckland
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Seems like the sort of thing a conversation with your wife could fix.
If she's been doing it for 18 years, there's no fixing that.
If she's down when you initiate, I don't see the problem.
Well, its how we're socialized. we're called ****** and ***** for wanting sex, and called frigid and bitches if we don't. We've never truly experienced bodily autonomy, and have spent our entire lives trying not to be victims of sexual assault. Add to it the pressure that women over 30 are constantly degraded for not looking 20, the undiagnosed woman-only medical issues ******* doctors refuse to acknowledge exist but cause us excruciating pain during sex, and the constantly being your maid and chef instead of a partner Maybe you should try having a conversation with her?
Funny how the one obviously female response is down-voted when she speaks the damned truth. This, SO MUCH THIS for so many of us women! SMDH OP, talk to your wife. There might be an underlying medical issue she hasn't had diagnosed, yet. If she just is not interested, then you might want to consider if you can live with someone who's ace.
if she’s just on the ace spectrum then you’re the asshole here, dude.
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if she has sex with you when you initiate, you're doing better than me.
Seems like the sort of thing a conversation with your wife could fix.