If she is stupid enough to kill herself over a guy, let her. You dont have to be with her if you dont want to be.

You're not responsible for her actions. I've seen people threaten suicide if their boyfriend or girlfriend breaks up with them, it's manipulative and a form of emotional blackmail #33. He shouldn't be forced to stay with and be responsible for someone who can't take care of themselves. It is not his fault if she's so unstable she does something unfortunate, only someone who doesn't like taking personal responsibility for their own actions would think so. There's a difference between being supportive and staying in an unhealthy relationship in which the other person's happiness is completely reliant upon the condition of having a partner. That's not love, that's obsession.

just like... make her not like you anymore. do everything that turns her off, and soon enough she will dump you.

I think you missed the *claim* part. from personal experience, the people who say they're depressed and suicidal are usually doing it for attention. the ones who really are depressed and or suicidal tend to not talk about it.

yeah and the mom was the one who told him right? not the gf? which kinda just makes the situation worseee if the dude didn't know that she was suicidal or depressed before....

whats the deal with you heart less **** bitches? he should care about her. **** all you guys i hope that you alll die veryyyy slowly and painfully

yeah, be there for her. that last thing you would want on ur conscience is a dead girl. don't get married per say, but try to be there at least as friends

WTF 33! I was in a relationship with a suicidal girl who kept cheating on me but I couldn't dump her cause I cared and I was scared that she will kill herself. That is just emotional abuse and no one should have to put up with it. Its their problem, not yours.

u know what? I love u! :D

you are cruel. :(

Wow what a curse. I like ya! :)

I think you shouldn't b so harsh about it. try putting yourself in her shoes. don't be so selfish. you can't help if someone has depression, just as much as you can't help if you had ADHD or add or something like that. you can't control it. so don't b so harsh on people. that's how people get hurt.

If it isn't working, stringing her along and pretending to love her will only hurt her more in the end

Haha that reminded me of nike. Just do it. I agree though. Op should do it. Maybe she realizes life is worth living now and her happiness isn't based on him.

So what's your plan, #42? He should just stay with this girl BECAUSE she's crazy? You're a stupid shit, you know that? OP should definitely just do it. All this incident is is evidence that he shouldn't wait until next week

#114, While #42 Could Have Written A Plan, How Is He A Stupid Shit For Actually Caring For The Girl's Feelings? Now I Would Be Stuck Too, I Don't Want To Be Responsible For Suicide, But I Don't Want To Be With Someone I Don't Like!

#163, Why Are You Talking Like This?

why not?

That's like saying "easy, stay with a girl you don't like for the rest of your life. Be married, have kids, and be miserable" then HE will be the one that's depressed and suicidal... so what now?

Sounds like typical marriage,,... :))

I went through this with the girl who is now my ex... she's fine now and were really good friends

That's A real Good Answer :)

This x1000. Do not stay in this relationship because you feel guilty for the girl. It isn't good for either of you. You cannot be held responsible for this girl's happiness. If anything, she needs some serious help, not a relationship. Be there for her as a friend, and make sure she has plenty of support, but do not let yourself be guilted into staying in an unhappy relationship.