Trust

By Anonymous - 03/02/2024 05:00 - United States - Chicago

Today, my wife revealed to me that the doctor at the fertility clinic where we stored embryos is her ex-boyfriend. She’s now furious that I don’t trust that our freezer babies are mine. FML
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You deserved it 315

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Dude, seriously. do you honestly think this guy will risk his doctor's license and many years of study in order to put his sperm in there? What the hell could he possibly gain from it, other than jail time? Act like a confident, high value man, insecurity will just drive her away.

I mean, you're not wrong. But OP has a right to feel that way, and there is a number of cases where the doctor did EXACTLY what he might be thinking. So, I would definitely wouldn't put it past him, but I would wait until a DNA test can safely be performed.

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Dude, seriously. do you honestly think this guy will risk his doctor's license and many years of study in order to put his sperm in there? What the hell could he possibly gain from it, other than jail time? Act like a confident, high value man, insecurity will just drive her away.

I mean, you're not wrong. But OP has a right to feel that way, and there is a number of cases where the doctor did EXACTLY what he might be thinking. So, I would definitely wouldn't put it past him, but I would wait until a DNA test can safely be performed.

Fair enough. I think just.. We all have insecurities but usually the only place where a problem exists is inside our heads. So, the important thing is for OP to handle it in an adult, constructive way that shows his wife that he is in control of his emotions. Be the strong leader that she needs.

A much smarter solution to this would have been to say nothing and then ask for a DNA test after the kid was born to check it belongs to BOTH of you. You could easily get away with saying "If we'd had sex I know egg and sperm must be ours but with a fertility clinic there are other people who could **** it up"

I am not an expert on this subject, and your post is lacking detail. Are you accusing him of artificially fertilizing your wife’s eggs without her knowledge? Or are you accusing your wife of cheating with him?