By Distraught - 01/03/2011 21:08 - Reserved

Today, the day before I was going to move in with my army fiancé, he was told he would be deployed very soon. I can't pay for the apartment without him, and now have to move back in with my parents until he returns from active duty. FML
I agree, your life sucks 35 067
You deserved it 6 650

Same thing different taste

Top comments

a_girl_i_know 0

when you're an "army wife," minor/major setbacks is what you will have to deal with. It wont be easy.

fromthesuck 8

oh so my job is to get shot? i hope you're not american cause i'd hate to think it's my job to get shot for you

Comments

The way you wrote this makes it sound like you are more upset that you have to move back into your parent's house than that your fiance is being deployed. While that is probably not what you feel (or at least I hope not), you might want to consider if marrying someone in the service is for you. One thing is for sure, and that is it's not easy.

whyme1887 0

ever heard of BAH? you should look it up.

lol just because he's deployed doesn't mean he can't pay for it... he should get BAH. there for all he has to do is set up his bank account to pay the apartment bill.. I'm sure he already knew this, that's why I'm starting to think he didn't tell u that for a reason.. so yea ur life sucks

j_dixie 3

you said until he returns from active duty. so I'm assuming he's national guard or reserve. which means he'll maintain bah while deployed. do the smart thing. put most of his stuff in storage, change his address to your address and save the bah while he's deployed. trust me, you'll be thankful for it when alls said and done. good luck with deployment. been there done that!

unless something changed from when I was in the Corps, he can have all or a portion of the rent taken out of his check and sent to the landlord/realtor. good luck to you, military life is rough, and even more so for the spouse.

...... you know what we do on deployments? absolutely ******* nothing. yeah every now and again we get hit by a random IED but the wars over. the toughest thing is the temperature and being away from home.

he's going to come back a different person n u will of wasted ur time. move on

I pray your fiancé gets home safe to you.

well I'm sorry somebody someone is fighting for our freedom. Without people like him this country probably would of ended during WW 2.

aaslt175 5

Easy get him to put money into an account on that you can withdrawal from. As a former army man, that's how I handled the same situation