By Distraught - 01/03/2011 21:08 - Reserved

Today, the day before I was going to move in with my army fiancé, he was told he would be deployed very soon. I can't pay for the apartment without him, and now have to move back in with my parents until he returns from active duty. FML
I agree, your life sucks 35 067
You deserved it 6 650

Same thing different taste

Top comments

a_girl_i_know 0

when you're an "army wife," minor/major setbacks is what you will have to deal with. It wont be easy.

fromthesuck 8

oh so my job is to get shot? i hope you're not american cause i'd hate to think it's my job to get shot for you

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jmole18 0

wow he is going to war and all you can think about is living with your parents... fMl

lordcaliburx 0

its because you talk out of your ass when you know nothing. learn facts then type. you act as if you know something when you don't. simple like you. understand now ? thou don't know shit but choose to tell us what to do.

Sweetie, you're still a civilian. Your hubby is the one working for the government. Not you. You might be married to him but you're still a civilian.

fromthesuck 8

okay... I AM MILITARY, so i can tell you... don't listen to these high and mighty bitches that think they are special. if my wife was like this i wouldn't have married her. i agree with an earlier post. if you want to stick with him then best way to get through it is focus on supporting him. obviously most of them forgot what it was like when they realized that reality wasn't as romantic as the show ARMY WIVES. oh and by the way... from my experiences most the women that do act so special about being married military are the once who have at some point cheated on their spouses overseas. see they feel so guilty they have to jump on your ass to feel better about themselves

Wow I've never seen so many bitchy comments on here! Anyone would think the OP had posted that she'd shot a puppy or something! Her soon to be hubby is at fault here, he could quite easily send money back but the OP still has somewhere to live...

fromthesuck 8

well now no it's not quite that easy. there's been many times i tried to send money. especially if you're one of people pushed out to the shitty areas. several times i tried to send money and it was actually LOST. the fact is it's no one's fault. it's just way life is in this situation

my husband is in the army if you are married before he gets deployed they will give him a housing allowance due to the fact that they do not want soldiers to return from a deployment to the states with no home

djcbanks 0

You have no idea what your talking about. when you are on active duty you get a housing allowance usually way more than the cost of your rent. Your boyfriend must just be saying that because he doesn't want to be with you anymore. So FYL

fromthesuck 8

god you're stupid. i am active duty and no you don't get paid housing just for being active. hell where i'm stationed you don't even get automatic housing for being married. the ONLY way to get it here is if you live off post. so even when i got married i had to get official command approval to get paid housing

That sucks. Sorry to hear he is deploying. I'm a Marine wife, my husband deploys in September. And to answer everyones questions, she can't get any money or anything unless their married. Engaged doesn't count.

ulicksam 0

Or you could get a damn job and support yourself instead of expecting everyone else to support your lazy ass.

he is smart not letting you get hold of his paycheck U.S.M.C