By Shino - 26/06/2018 19:00
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If his mother can "make him" uproot his and your life like that (or if he's willing to do it and then blame his mother) then just thank your lucky stars you found out before you married him. If his name's on the house, work on getting it signed over to yourself ASAP.
The real question is, how much is that ring worth? Enough that you can cash it? Tell him your mother made you sell it so you can’t return it.
So, either he's so co-dependent with his mother that he actually felt he still has 0 power whatsoever over his life (can't even finish a note) or he was so terrified of commitment that he desperately leaped at the first excuse to get the heck out of there without even trying to communicate and work it out with you. Either way you slice it, the very basic foundation of any healthy relationship is healthy communication. If he can't practice that with you now, the marriage was doomed from the outset. Maybe in a few years when he grows up, IF he grows up, he might be ready for marriage, but for right now it sounds like you both need very different things in your life than the other is able/willing to offer. I really wish you luck on your journey from here on out. Live and learn.