By overseasbummer - 14/11/2014 19:09 - Ireland - Dublin
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There are times to make jokes and laugh then there are times to sympathize. I would assume most people see it as the latter. That being said, hope you get things figured out soon OP one way or the either. Ultimately, you guys gotta make a decision as to what will bring, for lack of a better term, closure to what seems like a troubled relationship already.
Sometimes one argument can get so out of hand that things are said and done that make it hard to go back from. If some really hurtful things were said the trust in each other might be destroyed, and trust is the basis of a working relationship. OP, vacations can be stressful situations. So it might be healthy if you go out of each others way for the rest of it. Once home, you should have a serious talk about what you want for the future and if each of you can still see a possibility to have the other in said future. If you still see a chance it might be time to go see a psychologist or marriage counsellor together to work through the difficulties. If it really is the end though, try to keep the divorce respectful and fair. Treat it like a business negotiation. Either way, I hope a peaceful decision can be reached for the both of you! Good luck!
I swear you said this on a previous fml and still got downvoted for it. This one thing that happened to a random couple does not pertain to you nor will affect your marriage. I bet you are probably indecisive about a lot of things in your own past, present, and future relationships, which can, and perhaps faulter with this type of attitude. You need to be more accepting of things before you jump the boat about this stuff. Marriage isn't for everyone you don't need the title to be happy either. But I'm just saying.
Hopefully things will calm down and be re-evaluated. Give eachother some space and try and have some fun.
Just the one argument OP? Sounds like there's way more to this story! Please Update and sorry about your marriage.